Hi Everyone, I came across this thread when looking at immunes. Just a background history…
got pregnant naturally in 2018 and had my son 2019. In 2020 got pregnant again with his little sister - lost her at 18 weeks due to Covid. This was Feb 2021.
Started to try again but noticed a change in my periods in terms of texture but thought maybe it’s all regulating as we had a late loss. July 2021 I had my Covid vaccine as I felt like I had to with having a loss to Covid and TTC again. This month I started with brown spotting for 7 days before my period actually started. Again thought maybe things would settle. They didn’t. This carried on every single cycle like clockwork. Brown before and after period and periods clotty! I used to have textbook periods before all this.
we visited a fertility clinic and had tests - nothing showed. Had a hytercsopy etc. did 6 months medicated cycles and nothing although the cyclogest did stop the brown spotting. Started IVF process as a last ditch attempt in Oct 2022. They then decided to tell me after paying that I have signs of adenomyosis!
- fresh transfer jan 2023 - failed
- 2 months down reg - depot lupron - second transfer failed.
- third transfer added clexane and pred - chemical.
- fourth transfer did the same and added intralipids and had a MMC at 13,5 weeks. Baby stopped growing at 9.5 weeks just after our last scan,
im at a loss. I saw on the thread about missing out on life over the years in the pursuit of trying for a sibling and missing out on what I actually do have and it’s been a very tough 3.5 years.
I recently had another hyterscopy and lap and no endo found but he tried to shave down some of the adeno which is pushing into the endo cavity.
I’ve just started on hydroxycloriquine and I’ve been reading about the sitaglipin. I have an appointment with prof Heazell At Tommys Manchester at the end of the month but just unsure what to do and my worse fear was another loss and having to return to IVF and that’s what’s happened. The loss was in January and I’m just trying to move forward with acceptance but some days the desperation is still there hence reading all the threads and being on the immune groups etc. I just don’t know what to do and feel like I’m chasing something which won’t happen but last transfer was the furthest we’ve got in a long time although still miles away from the finish line.
is it worth me having the DEFT test?
I do have chronic inflammation linked to the adeno and my NLR is crazy high! High neutrophilis and low lymps. Anything else I can do apart from pred and hydroxy and intralipids. I couldn’t afford IVIG.
is sitaglipin likely to help with a natural conception or not?
sorry it’s long and thank you!