IVF March 2023

[Katie12444]

Wanted to start a group for those who are due to start treatment in March.

@Stopthatnoisemummy feel like an absolute mess. Now I understand why people say the two week wait is the worst. I’m struggling with the 5 day wait. Just feel so anxious and jittery. Just want to be put out of my misery tbh. I know that sounds super bleak but I honestly do not feel positive about the results of this EC at all.

But in brighter news, very excited for you and amazing news on the job. Keep us posted ❤️

@Katie12444 i know this feeling so well!! I was awful waiting after egg collection found it horrific. I’m now half way into the 2 week wait and have found it easier than the days after egg collection. Although we only had 1 average grade 3 day embryo to transfer, there’s something about the hope that keeps you going during 2ww. I’ve had some bad days too so convinced it’s not worked but I really do think the glimmer of hope keeps you going. Sending you love and all the good wishes 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@Jcl22 good to hear I’m not alone. This whole process is so much more painful than I could imagine but this group has definitely made it a bit more manageable ❤️
Sending you all the hope and good wishes in your 2WW xxx

Hey all - I’m finding weeing quite painful - did anyone else have a similar symptom? I’m triggering tomorrow and on day 11 of stimming so I get everything is big. But boy is it uncomfortable!

@Stopthatnoisemummy , @AlisonDanuta : thank you for your kind words. I met the doc today. On the day I had my transfer , there were 4 other ladies who underwent the procedure as well. The result was positive for all four of them except me - it's so hard not to compare and evaluate what I could have done more to ensure success. for now I have been asked to undergo some genetic tests...embryo genetic testing is not allowed in India (unless there is some family history or repeated history of miscarriages). Most likely will undergo next transfer in May'23 once the gene testing is complete

@anu21 how do you know this information? Surely not from the doctor?? That would be just cruel to tell you!
Try to focus on your journey through this as nothing worse than comparing yourself. There is a hope so just focus on it! You have next transfer to think about so fingers crossed

@Sd183 I hope you are feeling ok? I had this at the end of the cycle when ovaries were swollen. It mainly hurt at the start of the pee and then eased off. I would maybe call the nurses and discuss just in case it's a urine infection, especially if stinging or burning pain?

@ESWill how was your EC?

I had my EC yesterday, procedure itself went fine although I was very anxious. Sedation was good and I think I slept the whole time, didn't feel anything. I felt sore yesterday afternoon and evening like bad period pains. Today I am feeling a lot better and it's just tender when I move.
They collected 10 eggs and just had the call to say 6 have fertilised 🎉 now the wait for the day 3 update 🤞🤞🤞🤞

Hope everyone else ok too x

@ESWill on that is a fantastic update! Wonderful numbers you must be thrilled?

Peeing pain is just at the start like you mentioned

@Sd183 I was so uncomfortable when peeing! My ovary was resting on my bladder so it was a but painful when it started deflating which is so weird. That will ease off after EC but might take a couple of days as you retain some fluid. Good luck with your trigger!

@Sd183 @Jupiteer
Feeling emotional today. ECProcedure yesterday was fine- a bit sore a few hours later and have slept so much! Sore still today so had a paracetamol to ease it somewhat. I also have high blood pressure (not connected) but need to get it checked as it's high for my age - an annoying worry I don't need right now! I hope it's linked to the nature pressure on my body with the whole cycle.
Collected 6 eggs in EC yesterday , 2 fertilised. Not high numbers I know, but at least it's a chance, and a step in the right direction. Waiting for a call on Monday now.
The embryologist said that both fertilised have a 90% chance of becoming embryos, and then a 50% chance of becoming a blastocyst. I know there are lots of averages and figures out there, so your knowledge may differ, but it's nice to have some numbers.
I'm avoiding any kind of excitement because I don't want a big let down feeling if it doesn't work- of course it's a wonderful bonus if it does.
Something else I've been reading is around diet- I'm avoiding any form of eggs as uncooked aren't good I believe- so no mayo for me! Also, I've learnt there is yolk in salad cream! Also avoiding some fish- as they can have a high level of mercury in! Anyone have any nice healthy /hearty meal ideas? I'm off my usual food at the moment so eating much less vegetables.. which isn't ideal! Vegetable soup has been a go to!
Warm wishes to you all.
@Sd183 and @Jupiteer - where are you up to? X

@ESWill / @Jupiteer so sorry I realised I tagged you the wrong way round earlier 🤦🏼‍♀️

@ESWill they are still good odds, keep your head up 🤞🏼 but I recognise the whole not wanted to get your hopes up thing.

@ESWill I'm glad your EC went ok, I was thinking of you yesterday. Weirdly they told me I have raised blood pressure yesterday as well. It's been ok in the clinic so I think it was probably fear / pain. Have to get it rechecked.
Sending you all the positive vibes for your embryos 💜
I am not the best person to ask about diet. I will eat healthily if I manage to get to transfer. But I had a KFC last night to celebrate getting through the EC 🤣

@BrownXeyes mine is booked for Tues 18th. I'm still v crampy but remaining hopeful. How are you?

@Stopthatnoisemummy oh within days of each other. I’ve got everything crossed for you. I am sure it will be fine for you! I am ok still just
anxious waiting for the 19th but like you say I am trying to remain hopeful x

@Sd183 just wanted to say all the best for your EC tomorrow!

@ESWill how are you feeling today?

@Sd183 Yes absolutely - best of wishes. This time tomorrow it will al be done - and having gone through it myself, I can say that it isn't as bad as I predicted it to be - just make sure you rest, sleep and drink lots of water :)

@Jupiteer ok thanks - getting better today. Done a lot more around the house - still being careful as it can be a little sore in certain positions. Apprehensive for tomorrow- they'll calling me with an update on whether they've turned to embryos, and whether my ET will be tomorrow or Wednesday. It's starting to kick in that I may get to a stage where I find out once again that I'm not pregnant. Trying not to think like that - but as I'm sure many of you are the same - the amount of those bloomin tests I've done in the passed - at the moment I can't think of ever getting a positive on them!
How are you @Jupiteer ? Are you also getting a call tomorrow? How many of yours fertilised ?

Wishing everyone waiting for a call or going through egg collection, transfer or testing tomorrow lots of luck!

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@ESWill glad you are feeling better! It's taking me longer to feel better than I expected. I feel like I've been punched in the stomach to be honest. walking around is still very sore, I can feel my ovaries bouncing around and they definitely feel bruised. I was advised I am at a higher risk of OHSS as my ovaries have a polycystic pattern and I had a lot of follicles drained. I don't think it is OHSS currently but I think I'll need another day off work tomorrow which is annoying as I thought I'd feel fine to go back.
They got 10 eggs (many of the follicles were not big enough for an egg but they drained them anyway in case) and 6 had fertilised on Sat. Feeling very grateful. We have unexplained infertility (although I'm sure the PCOS pattern ovaries might not help) and I was worried none would fertilise. At least we now know we are capable of fertilization. I know the stats say there is usually a big fall off from fertilization to day 5, so will just have to keep fingers crossed.
All the best for your call tomorrow as well x

Hi everyone - took a bit of an internet break to try and either manage my anxiety and / or live in the moment depending how I'm feeling at any given time. Wishing huge luck to everyone gearing up for egg collection or transfers. And care and empathy for anyone in any of the awful waits we go through on this journey.

For those who are struggling with constipation, I can't recommend Fybogel chewy tablets enough. Sorted me right out post EC and whilst I was getting used the the Cyclogest.

I'm currently 5w6d. Current headf**k is that this weekend most of my symptoms have faded. My clinic doesn't do betas so I just have to hang fire until my early scan on 18th (we took the earliest appointment when my partner could be there for support). I know these things can ebb and flow, but I have a history of early miscarriage so think I will be convinced things are going wrong until proven otherwise.

Hey @Banbi nice to see you back! my anxiety is also playing up currently!
iam basically the same as you (5+5) and also all symptoms have vanished. Trying not to over think it. I did a test eallrlier and it was a very quick and dark line (which iv struggled with!) so hoping that's a hood thing. my scan is the 13th. and after that I'm going to ring my midwife to book in

@greentreeseverywhere & @Banbi we should set up a thread as we are all at the same point xx

Thanks @greentreeseverywhere - that makes me feel a little better. And snap! Mine was the 13th, but my partner couldn't get it off work so I've decided to wait til 18th when he could. I'll be thinking of you x

Btw, my GP surgery advised I call the community midwife team already (I'd rung to ask where to send the update note from my clinic). It'll be different in different parts of the country I've no doubt, but apparently the process has changed post-Covid. I've left a message but don't expect they'll ring me back anytime soon given the lack of urgency.

Let's @gulph - and others on here can join if and when it makes sense for them to do so. I'm pretty slack at Mumsnet. Would you be able to do that please?

@Banbi just looked on my go website and I have to go in and collect a pack and go from there so I will wander up this week and mayb ring ( feels like im jinxin it though!)

sounds great happy to join @gulph 😀