Thanks @2021ivfagain and @Sarahk20000. I've not looked into mild stimulated transfers - something else to research!
I've had a really weird time with my progesterone levels. Ahead of my first transfer, I had an ERA that showed I was receptive. However, my progesterone wasn't measured on the day of the ERA biopsy. We followed the same protocol for my first transfer, and my progesterone measured 36 on transfer day, so the meds got whacked up, but the transfer resulted in a very early chemical.
For my second transfer, I was put on Lubion from the outset, in addition to all of the other meds, and my progesterone was 99 on transfer day. That transfer was a total fail - completely blank pregnancy test. However, I then became aware that for ERA the transfer drug protocol is actually meant to remain the same as in the test cycle. So for my third transfer we went back to just the meds used in the ERA and first transfer cycle. It was still a lot of meds - PIO, crinone and utrogestan. That time, my progesterone was only 29 on transfer day, although the cycle did result in a later chemical.
So to conclude my essay, medicated FETs don't seem to have worked for me, but also my embryos just seem to run out of steam. DH and I have been on a more rigours supplement and diet regime for the batching (although we've lost the will recently with the diet!), which we hope will help to generate a bit more steam, but who knows.