@Sarahk20000 I'm really sorry that your last two blasts were PGS abnormal. It must be so demoralising, but you are still continuing to produce lots of eggs. So I understand why ARGC thought it was worth trying another round, and indeed you could do that again if you can stomach it. This is what is so difficult about IVF - to me it seems like you have amazing stats/results, but obviously you haven't had the one result you need. Sorry if that sounds strange--it must be such a rollercoaster and exhausting. But I feel like basically all I get (at least since our good first round) is bad news - never any hope.
My consultant actually asked if I was on a weird diet, had lost weight, or was taking chinese herbs, since it's weird how I'm not responding given my AMH which is not that bad. All I've done is been on a healthy diet and taken every supplement under the sun. I'm considering dropping DHEA all together since that's the only thing I've done differently this year.
We're going to try one more round at CRGH and see if I respond better. If not, I think we'll give up on IVF. My husband has high dna frag, though it's improved over the past year, so maybe that might give us a slightly better shot at trying naturally. but we tried for the year I was 39 and nothing happened. When I was 36/37 we got pregnant naturally three times very quickly. But that's now a long time ago. I turn 41 in November.
The only other thing I'm vaguely thinking about is natural IVF at Create, where they only aim for one or two follices. But a three cycle package is around 13k and the success rates are still only about 20% (for women with low ovarian reserve, age 40-43 that is). Otherwise I think we'll just take a break for 5-6 months, see if anything happens, and maybe, possibly, think about donor eggs at the end of that. But I think it's a lot more complicated with one child of our own (and I know how lucky we are to have him).