@RonRon1 that sounds really hard, but glad you got to relax. When do you hear if they have embryos? It's such an ordeal and I wish there was more certainty, especially after you've gone through an op. Hopefully you will have a few strong ones, and be able to transfer soon, and one of them will grow into a wonderful child. It's such a miracle, when it works, but the uncertainty is hard.
@BeHereNowx32 I hope it goes OK in the hospital. It's so unfair you went through all of that for this to happen. I hope it goes well when you have your next transfer. The whole thing sounds traumatic.
Just realised that when I posted twice the other day I posted two possible time scales, the second one being by far the more optimistic. I guess 36 or 37 are both OK, I just hope my AMH is all right. It is so annoying about the new form. We're going to ring them on October 14th. (Setting an alarm on Google for then and working on forgetting it. Ha!)
@BambiOnIce80 The drugs are actually Cimzia, a bioligic, which alters, rather than supressing your immune system. They've been prescribd for RA and Sjogrens, but if you google their sister drug, Humira, you will see they are sometimes prescribed by fertility clinics too (although people debate the effectiveness of these unless you have a diagnosed autoimmune condition.) It might be worth getting a test though. And you're right that it takes your immune system some time to adjust to the drugs. So far they've just made me very photosensitive, not ideal in a heatwave, especially for a girl who has always tanned, but it's a small thing I guess.
@Daisz thank you for being lovely. I guess storm damage is one of those things, I was used to it in France but not here. It's horrible that other mothers are like that with your daughter. I don't understand why folk are like this.
I'm taking another week away from this thread. Will check back next Friday, and probably will be here the following week, to rage about injustice when my period comes, and someone on Twitter tells me how they got pregnant by just relaxing.
Just going to focus on health, my writing, trying to create a routine, and trying not to let the stress of this cause fights with DP. We argued after the flood damage as we missed fertile day, and I was devastated and wanted to try anyway. Sometimes I do feel, that while we both want children, I am carrying the burden of this infertility thing, and I wish he was a little more proactive, and would take some of the load.