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ET day today..anyone else

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MrsLouB · 25/11/2019 06:10

Hi So after my ER i had 9 eggs all mature and 7 fertilised with ISCI, on day 3 all 7 where still all be it 1 a bit slower. So i have been booked in today for my ET. I am so worried about this as my lining wasnt where it needed to be but at ER the dr said it looked fine but had not measured it.

So anyone that's had ET do they measure and check before you have the embryo implanted ? Then im so anxious already for 2ww xx thanks ladies

Also if anyone else is similar would love to wait with you

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MrsLouB · 03/12/2019 07:22

@kell2126 yeah i dont i can get that on android. I could see something so just saturated more colour and inverted and i see something i think xx

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kell2126 · 03/12/2019 07:41

Keeping everything crossed for you @MrsLouB! Hopefully a lucky thread all round Smile

MrsLouB · 03/12/2019 08:19

I do hope so @kell2126.

@HJF84 are you testing tomorrow still xxx

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MrsLouB · 03/12/2019 14:59

I am feeling lost feel like this hasn't worked, 13 years and our 1 IVF/ICSI is a fail!

I know they say to test on the 6th but I am assume that if I get a bfn today and tomorrow that the likely hood is its a no.

I think I can see a faint line but then not sure, just did a PM clear blue after a 4hr hold and got the below.

feel so low.

ET day today..anyone else
ET day today..anyone else
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kell2126 · 03/12/2019 16:31

@MrsLouB so sorry you're feeling like this – is your DP there to give you a hug? I hope so. Give it a bit more more time – I've read so many ladies say they didn't get bfp till otd so hopefully your body just needs a bit more time for the hcg to get to the urine xxxxx

MrsLouB · 03/12/2019 16:44

@kell2126 he will be home when I get there so will cuddle tonight. He does not know ive tested yet so cannot tell him. But we are testing together tomorrow.

I pray that its just later to show up I really do thank you xxx are you testing again tomorrow ? x How you feeling

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kell2126 · 03/12/2019 17:46

Oh good – hope you guys have a lovely evening together. Keeping everything crossed for you for tomorrow – please let us know how you get on.

I'll be testing again tomorrow too – seeing if there's any progression. Feeling pretty normal to be fair – the odd twinge and a bit dozy but otherwise nothing to report. FX for tomorrow! xx

HJF84 · 03/12/2019 21:10

@MrsLouB Do keep the faith. I know it's hard, but as @kell2126 says, some people don't get that BFP until OTD. When is your OTD?

@kell2126 The line definitely looks darker today. So exciting!

I'm going to test tomorrow evening. I think I'm out though. I've had AF cramps on/off all day. I had so much hope yesterday and I'm feeling a little deflated. Part of me doesn't want to test, I want to continue being PUPO! But I know I will x

MrsLouB · 04/12/2019 04:03

@HJF84 thanks i know ive tried to keep pos but ive had bad AF pains the night sweats still so just trying to prepare xxx

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MrsLouB · 04/12/2019 06:37

So took another frer today and swear i see something but if i do my dp cant. Not holding onto much OTD is friday.

ET day today..anyone else
ET day today..anyone else
ET day today..anyone else
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MrsLouB · 04/12/2019 10:27

@kell2126 did you test again this morning ?

@HJF84 ah you have such will power have my fingers crossed for you.

xx

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kell2126 · 04/12/2019 11:00

Morning @MrsLouB good news that you can see something! FX for Friday!!

I tested again this morning and it looks darker so keeping everything crossed that it's a sticky one.

@HJF84 GL for tonight – rooting for you!

x

MrsLouB · 04/12/2019 11:23

@kell2126 ah so pleased for you and FX for tonight @HJF84

thanks but as you can prob see from the pics I think I am imaging it and Dh cannot see either

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Jem01 · 04/12/2019 17:07

@MrsLouB I do see a faint line too! Is your OTd Friday? 2 more days until you get your answer

@kell2126 so pleased for you! Was today your OTD?

Good luck to anyone else testing today and tomorrow morning..

HJF84 · 04/12/2019 17:52

@Jem01 @MrsLouB @kell2126 Thanks all! I'm keeping my fingers crossed, and my legs crossed right now to get a good wee 😂. I've had less cramps today, but a spot has appeared on my chin, which is normally a sign that AF is on her way 😞

@Jem01 How are you feeling in the TWW? Are you taking some time to relax?

kell2126 · 04/12/2019 18:13

Thanks @Jem01 my OTD isn't till next Weds 11th!! I'm on the NHS and I think they have it ridiculously late to weed out the chemical pregnancies. Praying I make it through the next week... When's yours, and when do you reckon you'll test?

@HJF84 the best of luck tonight!!! xx

Jem01 · 04/12/2019 18:27

@kell2126 my OTD is next Thursday so one day after yours! I’m trying to hold out as much as I can. Following all your early testing is making it harder to resist but it’s exciting to see the positive results..

@HJF84 keep us updated? I was off work on Monday and taking Thursday and Friday off. We have a busy weekend which will keep my mind off testing and then next week it’s just 3 days to go. Let’s see how long I can make it until I test!..Confused

HJF84 · 04/12/2019 18:32

It was negative. Not even a hint of a line. Feeling sad. I know there is a small chance it's not being detected yet, and it wasn't FMU but my OTD is Friday so I'm sure it would be showing now

kell2126 · 04/12/2019 18:42

I'm sorry @HJF84 Flowers I hope you get a different result on Friday x

MrsLouB · 04/12/2019 19:10

@jem01 thanks i dont feel so crazy now..my OTD is friday ..your being very good not testing early

@HJF84 i am so sorry and i am the same as you at 9dpt i would expect to see something but i have my FX for yoi

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Jem01 · 04/12/2019 20:02

@HJF84 I’m so sorry Flowers have my fingers crossed for you Friday will be a different result

Jem01 · 04/12/2019 20:02

@MrsLouB trying to keep myself busy but it’s getting harder!

HJF84 · 05/12/2019 06:25

Did another test this morning, and there was no line, not even the control line. It was out of the same packet, so not quite sure what happened there. I'll just wait now until the results of my blood test to tomorrow 👍🏻

MrsLouB · 05/12/2019 06:52

@HJF84 oh how strange a faulty test. Oh you have a blood test i just have to take a urine test. I wish they did blood tests.
I have everything crossed for you maybe a late implanter.

I did another frer this morning and again i have line eye but dh said no line. so am residing to the fact tomorrow with be the same xxx big hugs

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fool11 · 05/12/2019 06:55

It might be faulty HJF84, I had to test on D11, so much later than other clinics and my line was there but barely visible on day 11. As line was so faint I also did clear blue digital which said 1-2w, which was reassuring , as I thought I was imagining a line, I tried last week again, d17 and was much stronger, so it might still happen..Fingers crossed x