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Starting the journey thread 2

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squirrelnutkins1 · 14/05/2019 21:27

So we're nearly at 1000 posts.... setting this up ready for round 2 when the other is full.

I've tagged all the regulars I think (please forgive me if not ❤️❤️❤️) and anyone else who has commented on the thread ever if you'd like to come back and fill us in!

Here's to support and success 🎉💐

@2fingers22018
@VenusStarr
@Kelly199
@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF
@CloudSway
@GreyC
@veeboo
@mrsmch123

@bump2be
@ells0204
@claudie86
@nataliejayne26
@trying81
@sl85
@pinkroseuk
@chloeh99
@daisymay25

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KH87 · 03/06/2019 07:01

@Kelly199 that’s very kind thank you. And likewise if I can be of any help to anyone I am here aswell.

FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF · 03/06/2019 07:22

@2fingers22018 thankyou!
@veeboo sorry you had such a terrible time at the hen do! If ur helps I’d try think of it as they don’t know your situation and hopefully if they did there wouldn’t of been so much talk about it all! Big hugs to you!!
@kelly199 I’m good thanks hope you are too? Did you have a nice weekend?
@squirrelnutkins sorry af came but like you say means you can relax and enjoy your holidays days! I will keep you posted!
@KH87 welcome everyone is so lovely on here and we are all at different stages so we all have some knowledge on different things and are very supportive!!

So I spent last night putting reminders in my phone so I can’t forget my tabs will be taking my first one shortly!!

Kelly199 · 03/06/2019 08:18

@KH87 thank you xx

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF I'm good thank you. Had a good weekend too, did you?
That's a good idea! Have you got to take these up until transfer now? (Sorry I know you've probably already said) xx

Kelly199 · 03/06/2019 08:18

Hope everyone is ok and you all have a good day 😊

FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF · 03/06/2019 09:50

@kelly199 yes was good thanks! Well two aday for 6 days then have to take 3 a day after that I assume till transfer

Kelly199 · 03/06/2019 10:26

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF hope you'll be ok taking them xx

squirrelnutkins1 · 03/06/2019 18:31

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF it's getting closer! Eek! Xx

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2fingers22018 · 03/06/2019 19:04

Was out with my sister today(whos pregnant) and she started askin bout the ivf appt i almost burst in tears! I feel soo bad i feel like im puttin a dampener on her experience, i dnt want this to put a wedge between us but its soo hard😢 im totally excited for her she ll b a great mum but shes my younger sister this isnt how you imagine it to work out...@KH87 welcome i honestly dnt know how uve coped ttc that long fx ul now get some answers and the help u need x @Kelly199 how are you hun @squirrelnutkins1 enjoy ur holiday @FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF when did u say ur transfer would be sorry i know u prob said but my memorys crap lol @veeboo u doing k uve been quiet?if ur takin a break thats fine we ll catch up soon

FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF · 03/06/2019 19:15

@kelly199 thanks the headache is starting seems to be my thing I assume it’s just my body’s way of coping so I’m going to assume it will be a bad one tomorrow just got to make sure I’m drinking plenty!!
@squitrelnutkins lol I know I am a little bit eek about it all! How are you today?
2fingers22018 sorry your feeling upset I’m sure your sister doesn’t think your putting a dampener on it all! I’m sure she may be thinking it’s awkward aswell! Big hugs to you!! It’s looking like the 17th but will now more at my next scan which is the 11th to see how my lining getting on

2fingers22018 · 03/06/2019 19:48

@FinallytakingtheplungwithIVF thats whats upsettin me that things are awkward between us i dnt want to her feel guilty talking about her pregnancy but she does i know she does i can feel it. Its horrible😟 nxt wk then xciting i bet u cant wait until its all done now! X

KH87 · 03/06/2019 19:53

@2fingers22018 we just kept putting off going to see the doctor hoping every month it would be the month. It’s started to get harder and harder every failed month so knew we had to get seen and tested.

I am sure your sister understands, hope your feeling ok now. Are you doing ivf or just at the information stage?

KH87 · 03/06/2019 19:54

@finallytakingtheplungewithivf exciting times for you hope you are feeling ok with all the meds etc

FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF · 03/06/2019 20:04

@2fingers22018 oh sorry I miss understood!! It must be hard for both of you!

@KH87 thankyou it’s been tough I won’t lie but we getting there and hopefully will be worth it!

GreyC · 03/06/2019 20:05

I’m sorry to here not all of us had great weekends.
I understand @2fingers22018 it’s not the same but i know my brother is trying and I’m expecting it every time he calls me! He’s two years younger aswell.
@finallytakingtheplunge- fingers and toes crossed for you!!
Welcome @KH87! Everyone is fabulous here!
@squirrelnutkins1 sorry about AF - enjoy your gin!
@kelly - back at work after half term and such a busy day back at school 🙈

Quick Q; a few days after I get a positive ovulation test (so to long to be ovulation pains I think!) I get the worst period type aches below my hip bones. You know that burning ache?! I have no idea what it is!

2fingers22018 · 03/06/2019 20:18

@KH87 we did the exact same we re 4yrs ttc now, just got an appt to start ivf beginning of nxt month. Well we have to fillout consent forms and get bloods taken @FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF dont be silly its fine lol @GreyC i knew theyd b ttc they just got married so i did have time to think bout it but its still tough i was like u waiting on the phone call. Im weird with ovulation pains i normally get cramps over a wk before i get af, dnt mean to worry u but have u been checked for cysts on ur ovaries?

GreyC · 03/06/2019 20:26

@2fingers - I paid to have a private scan and they didn’t say anything about any cysts on my ovaries. I’m due to have another scan on Wednesday so a good check Incase anything new. I get some period pains but always after ovulation time i get pains. So strange!

KH87 · 03/06/2019 20:54

@GreyC thank you everyone does seem lovely.

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF will keep my fingers crossed for you.

@2fingers22018 bet you can't wait to get started hope it goes ok for you.

Kelly199 · 03/06/2019 21:43

@2fingers22018 aww must be so hard. Don't feel bad the way you feel, it's totally understandable. Fingers crossed you'll have your good news soon and these feelings will be a thing of the past, but for now, let yourself feel how you feel. At least we understand and you can come and rant on here. Sending hugs. Hope you'll be ok. xx

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF hope you'll be ok. Yeah, just keep hydrated. Won't be long before your transfer date is here!!🤞🏼 xx

@GreyC oh no!! Bet the time went so quick too! Always does when you have some time off! Hope you had a nice half term!
Since I've been on clomid I've had pains intermittently until my af. Although, they weren't intense? So I'm not sure.. you have it every month do you? Ask when you go for your scan xx

VenusStarr · 04/06/2019 19:08

Hey everyone, thanks for the messages and for thinking of me. Hope you're all OK. I'm massively behind on everyone's news.

We're having a month off ttc as got my hsg on Thursday. I'm quite liking not being hyper aware of my body and cycle. I'm having a scan as well on Thursday so it should show I've ovulated this cycle. Undecided whether to stop ttc until the consultant appointment as I've got the hysteroscopy in August too. Thinking it might be nice to have a proper break. Things are still stressful, dh is still ill, although home now, my nan is still holding on and I'm really run down with a horrible cold. Roll on next Saturday for our holiday.

Hoping you're all OK, I'll try and get up to speed... Xxx

FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF · 05/06/2019 07:21

Morning all hope we are all ok it’s gone quiet!
@venusStarr sounds like you are ready for a break and will hopefully give you some time to relax!! Hope you have a nice holiday!

Update from me now I’m taking the progynova there are no more night sweats or hot flushes so that’s good news!! Headache has gone aswell! So no real symptoms from this. a week till my next scan just want it to hurry up and get here so I can hopefully start count down till transfer! Mind you I am worried about having the whole full bladder to do this while having my legs in stirrups and someone pressing on my stomach to scan me! Must remember to ask the question of the best way to go about it can just imagine it be me that’s wee’s on some one 😱

Kelly199 · 05/06/2019 08:35

@VenusStarr hope your hsg will go ok tomorrow.
Yes, it would nice for a break! Be nice not to constantly be monitoring etc.
Sorry things are not good at the moment.
Hope dh gets better.
Really sorry, must've missed your message about your nan unless I've completely forgotten! Sending hugs xx

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF morning! I know, it has!
Glad it's better now! One step closer!!
Haha, I think I'd worry the same! Whatever the case, I'm sure they've seen it all before and heard it all before. Everyone probably worries about the same thing lol.
Hope everything will be ok now. Not long!!! So exciting xxx

Hope everyone is ok and has a good day xx

KH87 · 05/06/2019 11:36

@FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF glad you are feeling better and I bet everyone thinks the same lol

I got some blood tests back yesterday and I have an under active thyroid starting medication for it so hopefully that improves our chances. Still doing the other tests to check there’s nothing else wrong with us.

2fingers22018 · 05/06/2019 12:22

@KH87 ive heard that can affect fertility id say thats a gd thing its easily fixed with meds my aunty had it yrs ago and now she takes meds its fine fx this is the solution u need x @Kelly199 how u gettin on with ur clomid? @VenusStarr happy to hear u back on here sorry its been soo rough for u hun hugs did they ever find out what was causing ur OH to b ill? Oh no is ur nan ill aswell? Poor u! Bad enough worryin bout 1family member never mind2! Try and enjoy ur hol sounds like u need it @FinallytakingtheplungewithIVF i know it has been unusually quiet lol do u need a full bladder during the transfer or is it a scan before? God that does sound bad when i had my hycosy i kept tensing up worryin a bit of pee might come out😂the things that go through ur mind during all this stuff makes u paranoid lol

Kelly199 · 05/06/2019 12:22

@KH87 sorry about your thyroid, but at least you're being medicated for it now!
Hope your other tests will come back ok xx

Kelly199 · 05/06/2019 12:24

@2fingers22018 I'm ok thank you. On CD11, so dtd every other day!
How are you? Coming closer to your appointment! Xx

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