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IVF - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf journey.

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Dbear35 · 01/12/2017 11:16

A super group of women supporting each other and sharing their personal journeys and experiences during the IVF processs. All are welcome !

IVF - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf journey.
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user1497036202 · 01/03/2018 17:54

Yes @herewegoagain18 all tucked up on the sofa with a cuppa and chocolate x

Camay · 01/03/2018 18:00

Evening everyone!

Hope everyone has made it home and is snuggly and warm... ❤️

@Liverpool19 Exciting news for you! Good luck with your first jab!

I'm only 2dp5dt... why does it feel like a week? I also can't stop eating... literally chewing something, with something else in my hand... whilst my head is in the fridge looking for what's next! 🙈 x

user1497036202 · 01/03/2018 18:06

Ha I know that feeling @Liverpool19 ! I am worried about how much weight I will have put on! X

Aliona19 · 01/03/2018 19:22

Dinks lovely selfie 😅
Minster come on, not long till Monday 🙃 well done on being productive, my house is not picture perfect and I have no energy for that 🤦🏻‍♀️
Atik says she doesn’t have passwords and that’s why not coming here but she says it’s sweet that u worried 🙃 she is having private scan to find out gender.

User. I am sorry u had shitty day, And it’s great you feeling things 👍🏻👍🏻 Although I said u was back from swim, on my papers it says No swimming.. don’t know why 😕

Jane hey how are you feeling? A little better? 😘

Liverpool welcome to the needle paradise, it’s Fine, you can do it! 💪🏻

Star I am crazy?! I am quiet little mouse 😅 u are a nutter 😘😘

Swim how r u feeling?

Camay hello 👋🏼 eating everything must be a good sign 👍🏻 Keep positive

Sorry if I missed people 🤦🏻‍♀️ I can’t keep up at all. Also Rose, how’s wedding situation? And is @Scotlass still around?!

IVF - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf journey.
herewegoagain18 · 01/03/2018 19:29

Ahh lovely @ user just what you need after the day you had

Im like that Camay already planning my dinner when i get up in the morning Grin.

And i know that feeling about it already feeling a week. I had my transfer on mon so im 3days past transfer (?) or do i include the day of transfer. user your a little ahead of us arnt you?

herewegoagain18 · 01/03/2018 19:51

Hi Aliona how are you doing?

Aliona19 · 01/03/2018 19:52

Oh yeah, herewegoagain, I forgot you 😅 sorry. How r u?! I was wondering too, do you count the day of transfer or not?! I don’t think I want to wait till next Thursday 🙊🙈

Liverpool19 · 01/03/2018 20:01

jane I am having Meriofert for 6 days and then I add in cetrotide in with possible egg collection 12th March!!
star I hope you enjoy your holiday! You deserve it!
Thanks for everyone’s well wishes 😘

Camay · 01/03/2018 20:08

Hi @Aliona19 👋🏻 hope you are well! I hope you're right that it's a good sign... otherwise it means I'm just one greedy kid 😂

@herewegoagain18 Im seriously out of control! I was super strict when stimming so defo making it up for it now!
I assumed it starts the day after transfer?? But now I'm not sure?? X

user1497036202 · 01/03/2018 20:12

I think it does start day after transfer so I am 6dp2t at the mo

Ooh I wonder why swimming might not be allowed? Another thing for me to google Smilex

Aliona19 · 01/03/2018 20:23

Oh no User 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Now I put worries in your head 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Sorry 😅

Aliona19 · 01/03/2018 20:24

User that’s what it says 😕

IVF - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf journey.
user1497036202 · 01/03/2018 20:43

That's ok @Aliona19 - I wasn't told no swimming and would imagine they only say that as water might be warm - it definitely wasn't! X

Aliona19 · 01/03/2018 20:49

Hey User.. maybe it’s because of Chlorine in the water which probably not great for just transferred embryo. Or maybe risk of infection. But that’s only in 2 ww

herewegoagain18 · 01/03/2018 20:54

Aliona no worries im sure i forgot some people too in my last post . im not doing to bad still having discomfort in my stomach and some cramps on and off it must be the prostegene .

Camay nothing wrong in some indulgence after all those weeks of injections scans and stress (as long nothing unsafe which im sure you wouldnt eat !)

I think you are right user as i remember from ttc days dpo was days past ovulation which was counted the day after ( though no one could be 100% on day it occured) so i i would imagine dpt days past transfer would be counted the same. Could be wrong.

I will be honest I do remember reading somewhere about avoiding baths though dont remember swimming , either after collection or transfer so have avoided it until i can find out for sure, dying for a nice soak! Maybe something to do with pressure of the water?

Aliona19 · 01/03/2018 20:58

Herewegoagain that’s what google says about bath

IVF - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf journey.
user1497036202 · 01/03/2018 21:09

Yeah baths are a definite no go - as are hot water bottles x

herewegoagain18 · 01/03/2018 21:43

Thanks Aliona and user i have been cautious defiantly will avoid baths then. I have been avoiding dr google completly as will start to read about one thing and get onto another completely different thing. Lol

Janefx40 · 01/03/2018 21:59

The lack of hot baths was the worst thing about IVF for me! Far worse than injections and procedures !

@Starlumiere lovely to hear from you. Holiday sounds good. A longer break seems like a really good idea - it takes a lot out of you, when it doesn't work (as I am learning). I'd love a longer break but at my age I think I'd better crack on. We shall see

Love to everyone else too....

Xxx

PonyPals · 02/03/2018 04:41

Glad to hear everyone is going so well!

It might be helpful for all the newbies to get to know each other and all the ladies that have been going through this journey.
I'll start.
Live in Australia (super hot here today!)
36
DH and 2 labradors
DS - 2.5 from IVF ICSI
Prior to that 7 years of infertility journey.
Currently starting to prepare for a FET cycle.
Day 5 of pryganova and next Wednesday checking the lining.

What about all you lovely ladies?

Minster2012 · 02/03/2018 07:16

Morning! Wow loads of chat! user if you enjoy swimming and haven’t been told notbthen then you are fine! And Hopefully your embryos will be all snuggled in by now so it shouldn’t make a difference!

I hope the snow isn’t creating too many problems, it’s keeping me indoors yesterday & today, I’m trying to convince the dogs they don’t need as much walking but unfortunately they don’t agree!! It’s hella windy!

For pony here goes:
Live East Yorkshire England
33, DH 34
Never been allowed to TTC due to cancer treatment since 2011
Two dogs, one cockapoo, one pointer puppy arrived during IVF transfer last year in October
Low AMH due to cancer treatment
One round of IVF for egg collection/embryo making for freezing for surrogacy, got 2 last Easter
Transferred 1 embryo to my best friend in Nov as a surrogate, 🤗 currently 19 weeks pregnant with baby boy ❤️ Due 26th July!!
Waiting to start stims for round 2 IVF to try & get any more embryos to put in freezer as last chance of doing so, AF not playing ball!

IVF - A supportive group of ladies at various stages of the ivf journey.
user1497036202 · 02/03/2018 07:58

So about me:

Live in Essex and work in London
Age 35 but turn 36 next weekend
Been with husband for 5 years
Have a ginger cat called Crunchie
Start ivf in August 2016 - primary reason is OH has low morphology - less than 1%. However my AMH is also low. Told we have 5% chance of conceiving naturally
First cycle - 6 eggs collected - BFP but mmc at 11 weeks. 2 frozen
2nd cycle - 2 Frozen transferred - BFN
3rd cycle 5 eggs collected - 1 transferred none frozen
4th cycle - 3 eggs - 2 transferred last fri. On 2ww. Last chance saloon for us

X

Liverpool19 · 02/03/2018 08:29

So this is me.
29 from Liverpool, also work in Liverpool.
TTC for two years but both my Fallopian tubes are blocked with doctors unable to find a reason why 🤷🏼‍♀️. Everything else is fine, “very fertile” apparently and partner is fine too.
No children, no pets 😂
I’ve just sold my house as well as starting my first injections yesterday (I must be mad)

swimchick1980 · 02/03/2018 08:57

My vital stats:

37 from North Scotland
TTC for 4 years.
MC a year ago
No pets, DS who is 4.
Both pregnancies were natural but both after a long time trying and just about to start IVF.
DH has low sperm count.
EC a week ago, ET on Wednesday. Single embryo transfer and 4 frozen embryos. Testing a week tomorrow. Fingers crossed.

Tummy still feels very weird after EC - not painful, but just like it's been through v he mill and there's a lot of stuff going on..... Hopefully there is Grin

user1497036202 · 02/03/2018 20:09

I think my meds are making me not feel well - weirdly when I eat I get a headache almost straight away. Also if I stand up too quick then I get quite dizzy for a long time. Am assuming it's the fragmin I am injecting which is thinning the blood. Struggling a little bit x