Ok Freddo, may I ask that the first thing you do, as one catholic to another, is to read this piece on the Bible and homosexuality you will see that the Bible is no stranger to homosexuality.
In fact the Bible does not really say anything about it at all. It says a lot about adultery and murder and theft and all the other sins, but nothing much about homosexuality, which makes you think that it really wasn't seen as anything to get their knickers in a twist over.
Secondly. Jesus repeated over and over that it was not for us to judge but to accept. We should accept all people as they are whether we agree with them or not, it is for God to judge not us.
Thirdly, there are bigger sins than homosexuality, something the church seems to forget. Jesus fully condemned those who took away the innocence of children. I don't think, personally, that he gave a shit about peoples sexuality. Only the church gave a shit about that. In fact Jesus was quite happy to treat women as equals too.
It was the church who decided that women could not be equal, not Jesus. It was the church who decided that they should be celibate, Jesus only said they should if they could. It was the church who decided they didn't like homosexuals, Jesus never said anything about it.
The church made a lot of their own rules to keep their people right where they wanted them. Like a dictatorship. It frightens me that there are people still out there who accept all the church's teachings without questioning where it came from and why. Your biggest guide should be the Bible. If the church teaches you rules that are not in the Bible then you should and you must question that.
Jesus also taught us to beware of those who use religion for their own causes, he warned of people using his name to commit sin and spread bigotry. That is what is happening now and I am dismayed that there are intelligent people on Mumsnet who cannot see that and still defend the hierachy of the catholic church.
I have my faith, but I do not have that faith in the church. I will proudly stand as a catholic, but not as a catholic of the church as it is today. And I will be the first with the placard, naked, chained to summat. Possibly. Depending on how cold it is!