Thanks Tiktok - that's what I was told, pretty much. I think it's me that misunderstood, not the midwife who was wrong - the conversation was a while ago now, she was trying to support me in bf, and she was saying how all formulas are similar and they get round that by misleading advertising - probably went on to say that the follow on thing is nonsense and infant formula is fine for older babies, it's a con to wriggle round the advertising bans. That isn't actually the same as saying they're literally the same, which is how I heard it. I've bought him the Follow On now, and will give him the Growing Up for his last couple of months on formula. Thank God he's been drinking stacks of water the last month or so and eating a lot; hopefully that will mean the extra sodium/
Prebiotics? God, I have no clue what those even are - I assumed probiotics, given similar claims are made with Yakult etc (also nonsense, apparently). I do want to avoid additives that have no proven value, though really the lack of any premade infant HIPP is a disadvantage that could well have put me off if I'd needed it earlier. I'm twitchy about how unsterile powder is.
Pseudoname, bless you for the concern, but DS is only 9 months and has only been having solids since 7 months - refused totally before. For a range of reasons I won't bore you with I failed to bf and had to express his feeds, and after almost 8 months of doing so exclusively and almost 9 mixed I just couldn't face any more. So I am using formula until he's 1 - after that I will gladly move to food and cow's milk! Expensively pointless after that stage, really.
I wish people weren't so fractious over all this. Concern about misleading advertising of formula is concern for mothers who are forced to or choose to ff, as well as those who may decide against bf because they think it's as good. Bf is free, convenient and best for mother and baby, and wanting to encourage it isn't nasty or anti-women. Nor is trying to stop people being ripped off by lies from advertisers - if formulas are all pretty identical, then surely price is the main and best factor? And I needed help and info on all this stuff, and I can't be alone there.
Gah, I just wish people could fight over something worth the effort.