Dittany: I wish you would stop telling me I am upset (I'm not) or that this thread is 'touching a nerve', or that I should 'think about it a bit'. This is a public forum, it is about debate, not about your personal, sly, nasty digs at people. If I had a personal issue with sexual abuse I might, or might not, choose to share it. It is really not helpful to people to go around making snidey insinuations constantly, and it's also a clear sign that you have no dignified response.
Bobby - when you've been on MN a while, you realise that there are a couple of people who have a very jaundiced and simplistic view of humankind. They see the world as:
Women = poor, inferior beings who cannot be trusted to hold their own opinion.
Men= nasty, manipulative abusers
Children= innocent little sunbeams who never lie.
I've discovered that it's impossible to reason with these people (thankfully they are in a very small minority).
Most of us realise that people are individuals - some men and women are nasty and abusive, most are lovely. Some children are devious liars, most aren't. I wish the few who hold the former view would stick to debating with other daily mail readers and leave the more intelligent and well rounded debate to the latter