If an expensive education and life in a family where you might be given some sort of inkling that you are part of history, have a role in the State etc aren't enough to let a 20 year-old relise that it was stupid and offensive, then i really do depsir. Come on, Nutty, many people on here are grown up enough to be damn good Mums at his age - it's nbo excuse. And if he does feel like rebelling (and I wouldn't actually blame him for that) then a Nazi outfit was a terrible way to do it.
I hate the way Diana's ashes are raked over for more scandal every other week, mainly because I think how horrible that Paul Burrell doc (for e.g) would be for her children - but whatever you might or might not say about Diana, I think she would have recoiled at anyone wearing a Nazi unifoorm for fun!
And I think it is useful to be reminded at the crass inhumane way many people with considerable sway in the world view the rest of it's citizens .