Ulrika Jonsson Pg again

[AnAngelWithin]

that was quick!! oh well good luck to her.

he doesn't look all that in Helo - looks a bit smarmy and weasley to me
but good luck Ulrika

dooley1 I don't think you'll find that UJ is particularly bothered what the face is like. It's the area between their waist and knees that interests her - well for six motnths or so at least.

I think the Psychologist in the Addicted Sex programme strongly recommended that she (UJ)spend at least a year Man free sorting her head out. Guess she couldn?t manage it then!

Can you imagine the fall out if it UJ was pregnant with Sven?s baby!!

Oh good luck to her. I am the 3rd woman that dh has had kids with but hey, he reads The Guardian and runs a charity so he doesn't get vilified.

Lucky old smug judgemental some of you. Good luck to the rest of us!!!

I am not fond of Ulrika, mainly because of her autobiography.

I fully understand that a woman who has been raped may not want to press charges, but I think it is irresponsible to then publish a tell all autobiography which anonymously recounts the incident. Talk about 'light the blue touch paper and retire'. If there are parts of your life that are that painful and that private, why write the blooming book?

In relation to the four children with different fathers, well good luck to her. It's not what any little girl dreams of. Having said that, can you imagine the hell of co-ordinating Chrismas day? I'm not sure how many of the kids see their fathers, but that's one current partner plus up to three ex's. Even if she wasn't pregnant, I bet she'd be a Christmas day designated driver!

Mick Jagger has 7 children by 4 women and Rod Stewart 7 by 5 women. Are they berated? Thought not.

I wasn't one of the ones bereating Ulrika, but actually, yes, I do look down on Mick Jagger a bit.

I understand that sometimes the end of relationships get messy and that a lot of people have 'overlap', but they normally feel pretty bad about it. Shagging about that much whilst married is just nasty.

I too look down a bit on Mick Jagger, but more because he thought fit to give Claire Verity one while the lovely Jerry was in the other room!

I have to say I have absolutely no opinion what so ever on Ulrikakakakaka.

UJ is irritating because she never seems to learn from her mistakes or to develop and grow. She also, at the age of 40-odd, seems surprisingly immature. I do feel sorry for her children; even if she is the best mum in the world (which I doubt, because she seems very emotionally unstable but what do I know?) it cannot be anything but unsettling for them to see a succession of new 'fathers' coming and going. Whether UJ marries these men or not is not the point; there is a v high turnover of men in her and her children's lives and I don't think it is controversial to suggest that this is not healthy or stable for them emotionally.

Extremely well said Bessie123

Lack of a moral compass in the context of UJ is parading a constant stream of different men in and out of the lives of your impressionable, dependent children because it suits your own personal agenda.

Lack of a moral compass means having more and more children and then booting their fathers out of your life simply because you didn't bother to exercise the reasonable and responsible judgement to consider whether they were anything more than just a casual shag before getting pregnant.

Lack of a moral compass means putting your own sexual needs before your children's emotional wellbeing.

All of these things are morally reprehensible in my view.

oh gaaaaaaaaaaawwwd

Leave the poor woman alone. She probably didnt plan 4 kids with different dads.

i have 2 children by 2 different dads,(3.5yrs relationship and 5.5yrs marriage) and now i am a single mum.

Does that make me a skank???

i do not think 4 children by 4 father's necessarily makes UJ a bad person. many people procreate with just one father and still make a hash of it

Allgonebellyup, no, two children by two different men doesn't necessarily make you a skank (and I never coined that phrase in the first place) if you've had significant relationships both times but if you were to have 4 by 4 differnt men then I have to say yes, it would make you a skank in my book. Very much so.

"2 children by two fathers doesnt necessarily make you a skank."

Gee, thanks

And you think UJ definitely is though..as she has 4 by 4 diff fathers. Not judgemental then?

Congratulations to Ulrika and her husband on their lovely news.

Real life doesn't always turn out like an Oxo commercial.

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I would rather have 4 children by 4 different fathers than 2.2 children by one man in a cardigan.

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Maybe all 4 wear cardigans?

icod - Why not have a baby with the guitar teacher in the shrimp cardigan?

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have to say that though Scaremyvile is harsh she is right...

we do not know this woman. No doubt her children love her and she does her best. How are her reproductive choices our business?

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I have to say (and I have not read the whole thread) that some of the things in the papers have been so hypercritical, one write up said it is only the sort of people who own pitbulls that think 4 children by 4 dads is a good idea, and one write up in the mail by a woman who was a mother of 4 seem to say that because her 4 children had the same dad that made her a better mother the UJ

While it is not something I would do, I have 2 children by the same man, and even though we are seperated and I have a new DP I have made it very clear I will not be having children with him ( let me say that is is my personal choice and I am not having a go at or judging anyone), UJ is not a silly young girl, is old enough to know about contraceptive and is working to support her children not looking to the state to do so, Although I do think this woman is a train wreck who changes her men more often then some people change the colour of their hair, and seems to have a really tough time of choosing a good one, how she lives her life and who/how many men she sleeps with is up to her (ok she should leave of the ones already attached that does make her a bit of a trollop). She must like having children, must want them and seems to be a good mother, unlike some of the celebs you see in the press these days. I do think her children must find it all in a days work so to speak, although very complected.

Can't see what the fuss is about?