Poor Alfie, I hope his end was peaceful. Prayers for him and his parents. His mum and dad must be in a state of shock. It must feel unreal, after all the fighting and every effort being poured into keeping him alive, to suddenly have that ripped away, on top of the heart breaking grief.
It must be awful, indescribable.
I can only hope that their bodies are keeping them in a state of physical shock, which cushions them a little from this at least for the first day or so. I found this stage is something we’re desperate to rush over and talk about doing things ‘for the shock’, like it’s something negative that gets in the way, but it’s important, we need to be numbed and distant from such traumatic loss. Sometimes our bodies get it right.
Poor them. Poor everyone. I’m so sorry for everyone Alfies illness and loss effects.