Finally just caught up on the threads which move so so fast, too fast for my slow reading lol!
The amount of information and opinion has been a really useful insight into all the ethical dilemmas of this sad case from both sides of the coin. It really does bring home the enormity of it all.
I find it so sad though that c&c seem to have been bolstered into a social media whirlwind for which I genuinely feel they now can't get off.
Im afraid they seem so far from reality and are so disconnected to the reality of the situation that there in emotional hell right now.
I think we all can agree sadly this is only going to end in one way and I pray the judge sees to it that the most caring and compassionate decision is made for charlie (which I have no doubt he will)
But I do fear for c&c they are in a dark dark place and when it does happen I just hope that there is genuine support there to catch them when they fall, as sadly I do think it's going to really impact on them and feel there grieving will also be massively impacted by the frenzy on sm surrounding them.
Because they are so wrapped up in this bubble of disillusion they don't see what we all see.
I just wish they would go spend every precious second they could with there baby, I wish there family would ensure that there are a bloody good team of therapists on stand bye there to help them process there grief.
But in my opinion I doubt they will be able to just stop say goodbye and grieve.
I think that this will go on and on and they will feel the need to continue the story of poor Charlie's life long after.
I do expect to see the interviews on tv the front page story's etc etc as I think it's what they feel they need to do for charlie and without the intensity of social media roaring behind them I don't think they will feel settled or that's enough now we can stop! I feel that they will feel a need to continue, possibly they are afraid of having to suddenly go to processing it all alone.
Which is going to be very very difficult for them after the huge shit storm of CA.
Sorry for the babble, not getting much sleep atm, iv probably made no sense but I get what I mean lol!
Another one is i recall seeing documentary about a funeral directors that work differently to the norm for people who want a more personalised involvement with saying good bye to their loved one, they assisted in preparing the loved one in many ways and were able to then keep them at home for a period of time to say their goodbyes.
Maybe if the case is that they do decide its best for Charlie to pass, then this could possibly be a compromise between the hosp & c&c that once he'd passed they could have him transferred home.
Not for everyone I admit but it was interesting all the same.
I know from loosing my Nanna though that sadly her vent tube was unable to be fully removed as they said that her throat /airway would collapse as we wanted her free from all the mechanical things, when passing and just to see her beautiful face again at peace. But still it was all very respectful.
I think the longer this continues the worse it's going to be 😞