I have visited the Cologne threads offline from time to time but never had time to attend. My daughter urged that I check in so I am hurriedly doing so. I have to say that I am appalled that a certain group of posters with a hostile agenda are still here having been allowed to continue.
I note that they have not contributed anything useful to the debate, and instead dissect, knock down and criticise everyone else’s contributions. They have never bothered to submit an extract to the forum or a link or shown that they are properly engaged in the conversation.
I am a member of a number of forums and yesterday I was on bullyonline.org. Two posters were thrown off for exactly this style of diminishing behaviour that MN allows. I know of no forum that allows a cabal of saboteurs to remain. Their style of writing is to undermine and exasperate op but pretend it is a difference of opinion. They dissect other people’s statements but have nothing pertinent to say themselves.
There are some marvellous people in this debate who I can see are being deliberately antagonised by the problem troupe.
Discussion is the raison d’etre of this site, but MN has allowed several posters, who back each other up, to behave as arbiters of what is true and what is not, despite witness reports coming out of Europe and of some posters personal knowledge. Everyone is wrong, cruel, unfeeling except them.
I have been on online forums ever since they were invented and what I see on here aint right. The cabal attacks and pulls apart nearly every post from someone else, but when challenged manages to sound so-reasonable. This is actually bullying behaviour under a clever guise. Mumsnet HQ – you are either misinterpreting your own rules or there is something else going on here that I am missing. I have been a forum administrator myself and know that this type of aggressive contrariness is outside the rules of any forum.
I have signed the petition.