Morning, not sure if this is the right thread to post this on. I know everyone of the EU citizens (I refuse to see myself as a migrant) living in the UK has different circumstances and is facing a period of uncertainty. It's been now 4 days and I haven't been able to seep properly since Friday. I woke up this morning feeling sad, tearful and hurt. Not because I fear I will be dragged out of the country by my hair anytime soon but that the premise on which I, my dh and my children have built a life in this country has been taken away since Friday
We both have lived here for 20+ years, paid our taxes (how i feel the pressure to emphasise this now) live in our own home and our dc are settled at school. We have a tight network of friends probably also as a result of not having any family nearby. Our friendship circle includes people from Argentina, France, Germany, India, Australia, Germany, Italy, Turkey, Iraq and of course Britain. During my career here I have worked and socialised with people from all over the world. I have loved this multi-cultural environment and all the possibility Britain as a EU member has afforded me with.
for all this. I was lucky to be able to come to Britain as a free person, not fleeing from hardship or war and not looking to further myself economically.
The UK, especially London, simply became our chosen home and I felt valued for who I was not for my parents profession or social status, background or ethnicity. I have always felt lucky and privileged to be able to live and participate in such an amazing place as London.
Since Friday this has been taken away, at least on an emotional level. Practically, we (as all other EU citizens in the UK) are now facing an uncertain future as neither dh or I have ever seen it necessary to request ILR or apply for citizenship previously. This means our dc born and bred in London have at this point in time no particular right to their birth country.
We have always felt equal as Europeans, and didn't see the need to protect ourselves legally, what a mistake this has turned out to be because we never were equal despite contributing in the same way as UK citizens through our taxes and NI. I have never felt British but European with a love for her chosen home country, the UK.
With one swoosh we now belong to a distinct group (rather than enjoying the accepting anonymity of London) that can be spotted due to their accent or the language they might speak with the dc occasionally. My dh and I both come from two different EU countries and London was our home, there is no obvious alternative home for us at this point in time.
I truly hope Boris and his pals will tell us EU citizens in the UK where we stand and what our rights are going forward because we are now frantically thinking about clever plans A, B and C whilst trying to locate all the different necessary papers to apply for The Card and looking and employment options abroad. I have come to feel deeply connected to the place we live in and to the people around me but I have realised that we have no ‘right’ to it any longer at least for the time being.
Sorry for the long essay. 