chilled and I thank you. I do find the exploration of this subject fascinating because your view is so far away from mine (and I don't mean any offence by that!
) However, I do get it when you say you can't just withdraw gun ownership and expect everything to be hunky dory in your country, you can't change a mindset overnight. But I do think that steps should be taken, however small. I watched the montage of Obama talking each time after every mass shooting, his sadness and frustration is clear to see.
As wide as our chasm is, I can't convince you enough of not feeling the need to have 'personal protection'. It's not silly. I'm not unusual with this. I don't know anyone in my life (and I know a lot of people) who... on leaving the house, does a check list... car keys to drive, bottle of water in case I'm thirsty, book to read on train... some sort of weapon to protect myself. It just does not work like that over here, we don't imagine we are going to be attacked all the time. I go to London a lot, 2 of my DCs live there, I am not in fear and nor are they. As I said before, (and I can't emphasise this enough) we all take good, careful, reasonable precautions. I wear a bag across my body, I tell my DCs not to walk along with their Smartphone, and many other sensible measures.. But honestly, please believe me, for you to say it is silly not to protect myself - I just don't agree with this.
Chilled... you say "England needs to wake up and change their laws, how many more people need to be killed etc" We don't want to change our laws, our fear is small, shootings are rare, we don't want to end up with gun toting idiots on our street.
I want to tell you a story... bear with me...
My single young adult DD lives in London, she went to a party and was staying with a work girl she didn't know very well in an area she didn't know at all. They've both had a bit to drink, her workmate more so. They get back to workmate's house late and DD suggests going out to get some late night food and bring it back to workmate's house. DD leaves to go to all night shop just round the corner. At this point workmate goes into a deep sleep. DD goes out and as all streets look the same she ends up getting more and more lost and probably further and further away from the house. It's 2am, he's wandering the street of London in a bit of a rough area, she is lost, her workmate isn't answering her phone as she is in a drunken sleep. She walks around getting more and more lost. She can't find the right treet again. She does this for nearly an hour getting more and more upset.
What does she do? Yep, rings her mother and is sobbing down the phone in the middle of the night. My heart lurched, I nearly passed out, I thought she'd been attacked/raped because to hear your DD crying down the phone in the middle of the night is such a shock. The battery is running out on her mob and I am panicing about her safety and what is going to happen. Would I have felt better if she was carrying a weapon? Absolutely not.
To cut a long story short...from that moment on, she was treated with nothing but kindness... she found an all night taxi firm. They had a charger that fitted her phone, she sat there and I googled 24 hour hotels, taxi driver drove her there, refused to take a fare, and she stayed the night in the hotel until she could wake friend up and go back to her house. She didn't need personal protection, she wasn't threatened, attacked, held up at gunpoint. I honestly do know she was lucky, the situation could have turned a lot worse but what I am trying to illustrate is... it's not that bad over here, we don't live with daily threats, we know the general public for the most are not carrying a weapon because carrying any sort of weapon over here is illegal. That is... no pepper spray, no knives of any kind, no gun, no knuckle duster, nothing.
I think carrying a gun must make you more nervous because you know lots of other people are, if my DD had been carrying a gun that night and I knew others were, it just heightens the threat of violence. That scenario could have ended up far worse because of carrying a weapon but when you live in a country where it isn't the norm, situations don't escalate so quickly or so violently.
Sorry to ramble on 