This whole discussion strikes me as akin to that old one about how many angels can dance on the head of a pin - it is all imaginary and a human construct. How rational people with any understanding of science can believe in the supernatural is beyond me. How do people just not get that religion was invented to explain what - at the time - was inexplicable? Nowadays we have scientific explanations, and have no need for gods - apart from our fear of death as a final ending, which many people seem unable to accept. All the rules dictated by the various religions of the world are human constructs - how is it for a moment logical to think that you won't go to some 'heaven' because you've eaten a forbidden food, like (random example) prawns?
As science explains more about the universe, so god, or gods, diminish - they become the gods of the gaps - if you don't understand something, then 'god did it' is the answer - until it's explained by science, and then the rational religious person will accept that, but still assert that 'god did it' is the answer to the mysteries we haven't yet discovered an answer to. The Pope now accepts evolution, but still Catholics are told that birth control is a sin, ffs.
All religion is a delusion, and the sooner we can all have the emotional maturity to accept our mortality and stop this ridiculous and irrational reliance on an imaginary security blanket called 'faith', the better. 'Faith' is just another word for gullibility and denial of reality in the face of evidence to the contrary.
I may be an atheist, but I am also an atheist who has experienced the death of loved ones. If it makes people feel better to imagine that we're all going to be reunited in some blissful place (I like the Rainbow Bridge, myself), then go for it, but it's still illusionary. Harsh, but true - and that's the nature of an impartial and uncaring universe. Truth doesn't do hugs.