I'm super late to the party and haven't read the other two threads but -
If this has been done by the pilots or a very knowledgeable group of terrorists, could the plane have flown along a different route without cabin crew knowing? So if it was the pilot's, they just re routed without a word?
Would the cabin crew have a panic button of sorts to tell the ground something was amiss?
Then, if the pilots landed the plane, handed the passengers (who had no idea of a re route!) over to a hijacking group with guns etc the passengers could be alive. For now.
Then, they could attempt to fly the plane, with passengers and explosives at a country. My guess would be China purely because of the amount of Chinese on board (my only logic hear being if it was a different country this was aimed at they would have chosen a different flight) then China would shoot the plane out of the sky before it got to land, therefore killing their own and causing mass hysteria.
This would explain the silence. I also believe (my opinion and i'm welcome for it to be dis proven!) that Rolls Royce new where the engine was many days ago but probably chose to to share the information with the US first rather than China/Malaysia. If the US send in their secret service to the location they believe the plane is (totally dependent on it having been landed!) then this could be done without other countries knowing, similar to when they went into Pakistan for bin laden.
In my opinion, the media is being drip fed info to keep them busy, Malaysia probably doesn't even know the full extent of what is happening behind the scenes, other countries do believe it is terrorism as they wouldn't be helping as much if they were not worried about a security risk and we'll only be told anything substantial after its happened. Plus where they are searching, according to the Media, may not be true as to make the hijackers believe they are looking elsewhere.
A total theory with no evidence to back it up but seems more likely to me than a pilot suicide or something going wrong.