Holly
Not one entity or member of the child's extended family or authority figure or the father take any steps to offer the child a home or placement here. You can tell by the void where a list of "steps taken to claim the child" should be. The only way to deny that is to take the extrodinary step of including Italian SS in the Great Essex LA Babysnatching Conpsiracy. Becuase it is a matter of record that they liased extensively with Essex.
Italian SS have to do everything in quadruplet and they do not have localised free rein (becuase that would cut down on the much love beurocracy). So if Italian SS are in the Great Essex LA Babysnatching Conpsiracy, it is on a national level, from the lowest to th highest levels.
The mother did take steps. The issue is that he took step in the Italian legal system, which has no jusridiction over the child or British terroritories. So from the very first meeting with a lawyer, it was a wholly doomed enterprise.
There are two possibilities.
A) That SS, lawyers and other entitities she reached out too misled her deliberatly and sent her up the garden path becuase they are part of the Great Essex LA Babysnatching Conpsiracy.
B) She as told she would have to go through the British system, but was unabe to process that information to the degree required to act upon it.
If you are determined to join TeamHemming as a fully paid up member and want to believe in the WorldWide Essex LA Babysnatching Conspiracy, have at it.
There are limits to the power of debate to enlighten those who have gone 2+2=ELEVENTY SQUILLION!?!! and are loath to give the more exciting opportnnities to wibble and sleuth that go hand in hand with that.
IMO reality's biggest flaw is that is just so much more boring and unexciting that OMG!CONSPIRACY!TROOF!
Some people need the buzz and the self attributed kudos of acting out a high drama, intrigue & supsense film ......in their head, instead of living the actual life they really have.
And there is fuck all the rest of us can do about that. Well beyond our remit.