Thanks Kim.
I think this captures it:
I cannot imagine how hard it is to switch off like that and then treat someone with respect who was trying to kill you a few minutes ago
I suppose that is what professionalism is and what the military has to try to inculcate in its members - but it must be incredibly hard and they must sometimes fail.
I am not blindly militaristic at all - I struggle with buying a poppy although I usually do. I have the utmost respect for anyone who joins the military for the right reasons and am amazed at their courage and willingness to live a life I would not be prepared to lead. I just am not comfortable with the almost obligatory nature of the poppy and the fact that every newsreader has to have one... And I have no connection with the military, know no one in the military, didn't even have close relatives in WW2 (grandparents were farmers) so I'm far from identifying myself with the forces. But even given all that, I can't understand where Geckos is coming from. In fact although I can see that what happened was wrong, I'm more disturbed by the glib conversations between the marines before the shooting than by the shooting itself iyswim. War is a very narrow moral path to tread.