I've actually tried very hard not to be biased in my comments.
I am actually comfortable to be labelled "left of centre" even I did vote for a Tory in the local elections
as it accords with the values I was brought up with. I also think those values are not totally incompatible with the "old" Scottish Tories, even though I disagree with some of their approaches. (for example, I believe in comprehensive education).
I most definitely am not a cybernat 
Debates such as this (which to give it its due, has stayed generally civil) are tipping me in favour of voting yes, as I still haven't many positive arguments in favour of the Union, but more and more evidence of the differing values.
As I've mentioned before, I seem to be unusual happen to believe that we shouldn't do it purely because we might/will be financially better off. This is a long term decision. My personal opinion is that people should vote which way they thing is right
To use the marriage analogy, you don't get a divorce because you think you'll gain financially out of it - usually you're poorer, at least initially. You do it because, for a variety of reasons, you don't want to be married any more.