for goodness sake. here we all are quiblling over who should get what and why, who should be taxed and why, giving chb and taking it away with tx etc etc. fine.
hows about the alternatives here?
hows about leaving it as it was intended? for the benefit of ALL women and children? we all have un-agreed reasons to want to keep it or give it up and can all justify those reasons with our own experiences. we will never all agree clearly.
there are alternatives here. read the facts and figures-no great savings will be made by doing this. meanwhile the banks get off with hardley paying anything, a levy that will hardley tickle the sides of the banks; just for instance.
while we are talking about CHB, there is great risk of people loosing homes, the disabled and elderly loosing care that they need, schools bugets being cut, our childrens education being screwed etc etc. the list is endless.
we should not be arguing, we should be supporting eachother as MOTHERS, mothers to our own children and with empathy to mothers and children in other families besides our own. other peoples children will be the people our own children have to live with. hows about they grow up caring for eachother, no matter if they are rich or poor, but being treated and treating everyone fairly.