Loudlass your comment re me thinking I'm better than you is rather nasty and uncalled for,where have I said that? I think it's really nasty to be so unpleasant over somebody just saying they'll miss their cb. I've tried to show you in a respectful way as have others why, so it would be nice if you give the same respect back.
Personally I find it slightly annoying that my huge taxes pay for people to live in London near their family when we can''t actually afford to do the same. Now I'm prepared to respectfully listen to the bigger picture and another point of view re HB without giving bitchy comments it would be nice if you could do the same.
As it's been pointed out to you what is in our pockets at the end of the month isn't vastly different however you seem to think it's ok for you to complain that money is tight and I'm not allowed to.
Re running a car we only use it when totally necessary,dp cycles 13miles each way to save on bus fare and petrol,we all walk so it's rarely used.
Re camping if you know where to look you can camp very cheaply.
Oh and I'm not married and you know absolutely nothing re dp's job, qualifications,how hard dp works,sacrifices we've made over the years or anything else so please don't judge me on information you know nothing about.
Also re windows I was referring to replacing the actual windows themselves and sorry providing lightbulbs is not the same as funding general wear and tear(eg replacing a full set of rotten windows).I've rented for many years and sorry financially it's completely different,it's vastly more expensive however 'lucky' one may be. At the end of the day we're in the same boat as if anything needs replacing we can't do it as don't have the funds,you have to wait for your landlord.
Personally I think you're refusing to see my point of view and are being extremely 'bloody minded' yourself.