Many things do not add up here.
Firstly nobody actually accused (if that's the right word as theirs nothing wrong with it) WH of being gay. There was a blog which speculated about the need for (multi-millionaire) WH to share a room with his special aid.
It was WH who then said that he wasn't gay.
Secondly The aide was not on the list of advisors and every cabinet member apart from WH has only 2 aides.
Thirdly, why did the guy resign and why did WH decide to tell the world about his infertility struggles. It seems like a massive over-reaction. Surely if its not true, you would just say its not true, not drag your wifes heartache out in public to hang on to your job? Also what does infertility have to do with not being gay?
4th - The aide was originally his driver and they shared a room in hotel separate from all the other delegates. After this he then made the driver, who had no experience, his 3rd and unecessary, special advisor.
5th - Andy Couslon, the Comms Dr for the Torys is probably about to be under investigation for wire tapping again as the New York Times ran a story yesterday saying he did know about wire tapping contrary to what he told the police last time this all blew up. This is barely being reported because the WH story has all the front pages i.e. it's been buried.
It was Coulson who advised WH to bring up infertility and he must have known this over-reaction to the original story would just lead to more innuendo concerning WH. I personally believe that Couslon and Cameron threw WH to the wolves to bury the bigger story which is that their Comms Director has allegedly been involved in breaking the law several times and for a party who campaigned heavily against sleaze and spin doctoring, this story would seriously damage the party. Cameron has given 100% backing to WH so expect him to be gone by the end of next week.