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Slatterns and list makers reunited - FAQ returns!!!

1002 replies

FAQinglovely · 22/06/2009 10:24

new thread - a little early but I wanted to mark my return.

Sorry for everything I've missed - but I can promise you I'm BACK now

(any major updates please let me know )

OP posts:
claireybee · 24/06/2009 18:09

I feel like crying right now. there is a mountain of washing up and the sides need wiping but I just have to look at it. The dc didn't want dinner so I just gave them some cereal and they had a fight and tipped it all over the floor and it's trod through the whole house. the dining room and kitchen floors are all sticky where ds tipped his juice on them. he also keeps pulling his willy out of the top of his nappy and so is weeing all over floor, i hoovered up some of the cereal b ut it opened up a small cut (from the same incident) and i didn't notice for ages so have dripped blood all over the floor. It is still bleeding so I can't get my clean washing in. Feel so useless and all because of a cut finger, how pathetic

JustKeepSwimming · 24/06/2009 18:34

Oh dear Clairey
(ds1 picked open a scab earlier and bled on the carpet too, it's not good).
cold water for the blood, plaster for yourself.
sod the rest until you feel cheerier.

Alice - well done on the painting!! what colour?

Muppets - yey re college! the holiday was lovely thanks, lots of rum cocktails, beer, wine, food, chilling out with no DCs, etc.....

Well not sure what MIL did wrong, but 2 x delicate loads & 1 x normal and the machine seems fine......

Today:

  • deal with broken washing machine Done I think!
  • rehome everything Started
  • ds2 nap DONE
  • friends coming round DONE
  • maybe start on holiday washing Doing
  • tea x 3 DONE (boys + friend's DD)
  • boys to bed
  • Wii weigh-in post holiday.....
  • tidy toys started
  • easy dinner for me
  • another early night i'm sure

Ongoing:

  • rediscover favourites to save on new laptop DoneMore
  • contact handyman (sort list)
  • get photos of family & hang them up
  • buy some cheap photo albums
  • find correct sized refills for filofax pen
  • get on with friend's family tree
  • transfer all family tree stuff over to Mac software
  • then go through 1911 census (again) for research
  • make a holiday collage with ds1 to send to Bro & SIL
cikecaka · 24/06/2009 18:37

Maybe she didnt want to do your washing JKS, or maybe the machine missed you!!!

Everybody Up DONE
Everybody Dressed DONE
Make Lunches DONE
tidy over Kitchen
Sweep floor
Wash Floor
Make Lasagne STARTED

Wash Breakfast DishesDONE
Clear Dining Room
Wash Floor
Clean Sitting Room DONE
Wash Floor DONE
Hung out T-Towels DONE
Make Lunch DONE
Wash up after it
Make Dinner for DDs
Washing ANOTHER LOAD IN
Start Cleaning for Party
DOWNSTAIRS BATHROOM
Wash Walls
Clean Door
Remove dust from Skirting boards and behind the sink DONE
clean Toilet
Wash Floor DONE
Wash Hall Floor DONE
Sort out drawers in DS Room DONE
Tidy DS room STARTED BUT DD3 TRIED TO HELP SO ABANDONED IT UNTIL LATER
Cook Tea
Wash up after it
Put away piles of clothes ONGOING

JustKeepSwimming · 24/06/2009 18:40

PMSL!
She said that she did a wash everyday - think maybe it was in shock

smallblessings · 24/06/2009 19:15

Realistic list for tonight

Change beds
Change cat litter and wash floor
DDs to bed
Feed baby
Cut babys nails
Empty DW
Check girls hair
Pluck my eyebrows
get DH to fix l/room light

PlumBumMum · 24/06/2009 19:16

Hi everyone
Clairey go outside and enjoy the sun forget about the house
Alice what colour, you know me I love paint colours! Which reminds me I still need to change my chimney breast colour in the lounge, wasn't enough contrast!
haven't got any washing sorted have spent the day scaring internet to see rules and regulations for additional seats in cars still none the wiser,
rang insurance company and they are going to get back to me tomorrow!

Alibabaandthe40nappies · 24/06/2009 20:06

Evening!

JKS - glad the machine is ok

Alice - well done on all the DIY, I wouldn't know where to start!!

Plum - do you need to tell us something??

Clairey - Is DH around to clear any of it up?

Today
Up and dressed - done
DS dressed - done
Wiifit - done
Unload dishwasher - done
Breakfast x 3 - done
DH into office - done
Hang out washing - done
DS nap - done
Shower and get dressed properly - done
Wipe over bathroom - started
Ocado delivery 11-12 - done
Unpack shopping - done
Fold clean washing - done
Lunch x 2 - done
Request refund from Ocado for apples - done
Into town with DH to find him a new suit - done
Out for walk - no time
Make lamb tagine for dinner - done
Make flapjacks
DS nap
Sit down with cup of tea in front of tennis no!
Ironing
Hoover upstairs
Dinner x 3 - done
Get washing in - done
Fold clean washing - done
DH to cut grass - done
DS bath and bed
Clear up - done
Relax

Ongoing/this week
DRINK WATER
Lose weight - 7lbs down
Sort out DS' wardrobe
Shoe cull - 2 pairs gone
Clean insides of patio doors
Book smear
Book Drs app for next Friday
Clean kitchen windows
Put up stairgates
Tip runs

JustKeepSwimming · 24/06/2009 20:09

How are you doing now Clairey? hope DCs in bed and you can chill - and everyone else too - except those with tiny babies i suppose!

Any cake people know if i can make fairy cakes with strawberry 'chips' instead of chocolate?

Today:

  • deal with broken washing machine Done I think!
  • rehome everything Started
  • maybe start on holiday washing LastLoadOut
  • boys to bed DONE
  • Wii weigh-in post holiday...DONE (8,8 so pretty good!)
  • tidy garden toys DONE
  • tidy toys MoreDone
  • easy dinner for me DONE
  • another early night i hope

Thursday:

  • all usual
  • ds1 to pre-sch
  • ds2 nap
  • start normal laundry
  • planning for party in July
  • poss test run of some strawberry cakes?
  • tidy toys properly
  • collect ds1
  • friend possibly coming round, not sure
  • some food shopping if ds2 lets us
  • ds2 nap
  • tea
  • boys bath and bed
  • dinner (dh home at some point)
  • bed

Ongoing:

  • rediscover favourites to save on new laptop DoneMore
  • contact handyman (sort list)
  • get photos of family & hang them up
  • buy some cheap photo albums
  • find correct sized refills for filofax pen
  • get on with friend's family tree
  • transfer all family tree stuff over to Mac software
  • then go through 1911 census (again) for research
  • make a holiday collage with ds1 to send to Bro & SIL
cikecaka · 24/06/2009 20:14

Everybody Up DONE
Everybody Dressed DONE
Make Lunches DONE
tidy over Kitchen
Sweep floor
Wash Floor
Make Lasagne DONE

Wash Breakfast DishesDONE
Clear Dining Room
Wash Floor
Clean Sitting Room DONE
Wash Floor DONE
Hung out T-Towels DONE
Make Lunch DONE
Wash up after it
Make Dinner for DDs
Washing ANOTHER LOAD IN
Start Cleaning for Party
DOWNSTAIRS BATHROOM
Wash Walls
Clean Door
Remove dust from Skirting boards and behind the sink DONE
clean Toilet
Wash Floor DONE
Wash Hall Floor DONE
Sort out drawers in DS Room DONE
Tidy DS room STARTED BUT DD3 TRIED TO HELP SO ABANDONED IT UNTIL LATER
Cook Tea
Wash up after it
Put away piles of clothes STILL ONGOING
Start DD1 room HOOVERED UNDER BED
Sort DD1s wardrobe IT IS FULL (She wants to buy clothes with her birthday money)

PlumBumMum · 24/06/2009 20:22

No its something we have been meaning to do for along time but it is also something that will hold up future plans to increase the brood,
originally we thought it would cost £500 so I'm afraid it was always going to be way down the list for things to get done,
but dh got the seats from a van given to him and they have seatbelts built in,
so he can fit them and as far as we can tell as long as it passes MOT they will be fine, and as long as insurance company says ok,
if not then I'm afraid dc no4 will have to wait long time as we are not in the position to change our car.
Although have seen plenty of conversions on the internet, and the UK version (Japenese import) of our car has 7 seats,
so we might already be insured for 7 seats!

Comewhinewithme · 24/06/2009 20:31

Evening.
Claireybee hope finger heals soon ouch!

JKS glad you had a good time.

Waves to all slatterns .

I am knackered been a very long day but Lola weighs 7lb 11oz so she has put on 10oz in a week .

Scary day tomorrow DP is at work from 5am so I am doing everything alone tomorrow for first time since baby !

Bathroom
dress me and Lola done
Hang washing out done
Make beds done
Hoover bedrooms
DD4 lunchbox done done
Lola @ HV drop in done
Nursery run done
babies /bumps done
School run done
Tea done
Uniforms done
sandwiches done
RR
Bath girls /check hair
Bedtimes done
Ugly Betty
quick tidy round donex2
Baby bag done
FIND PHONE done

Comewhinewithme · 24/06/2009 20:37

Oh PBM would be good if you are already insured . How is the new baby all ok I hope ?

Tomorrow

All up washed and dressed
Breakfast
RR
Quick tidy round
Worry all day about DS been @ big school
School/nursery run X2
Make beds
Hoover everywhere
Mop floors
Tea
Put all clean washing away
washing /drying
meal plan next week
uniforms
online shop
Baths
RR
Bedtimes

smallblessings · 24/06/2009 20:51

Change beds done
Change cat litter and wash floor
DDs to bed done
Feed baby ongoing
Cut babys nails
Empty DW
Check girls hair done
Pluck my eyebrows
get DH to fix l/room light

alicecrail · 24/06/2009 21:19

Evening all

The colour is a bluey/greeny/grey, quite a deep colour and soooo nice, will put photo's up when all finished (with shelves etc) If anyone is very interested it is crown paint in Boutique - even sounds posh

Fill holes in wall done
Sand wall done
Wipe wall down skipped that bit it'll be fine
Do horses done quickly
Go to homebase to sort out about worktops done
Ring agency wrt next door and fence done
Cook dinner went to burger king
DD bed - no time for baths!! done
Paint wall done!!!!! (well, i have done the alcove where the shelves are going and most of the chimney breast, the rest needs a tall person (DH) as the floor is too unlevel for a ladder) dh done his bit
Mad panic tidy round
Water strawberries

HalfMumHalfBiscuit · 24/06/2009 21:30

Hello ladies. Have finally summoned up the energy to post.

CWWM - yeah DD putting on 10oz. You'll be fine tomorrow. Its a big step though - know what you mean.

Clairey - sounds like a nightmare day. Hope its better tomorrow.

I've had a mega exhausting day. Took DS for first morning at Metherin nursery at the village school. I stayed with him and he was fine but I had to stand up lots. Also walked there and back. He was exhausted after and went to sleep straight away when I took him to his usual nursery near my work. Unfortunately I didn't have that option and had to put in an afternoons work. Am so tired now can hardly think!

Gestate 23 weeks doing
DS to Metherin nursery this morning done
Take DS to usual nursery this afternoon done
Food shop done
Go to work done
Post parcel done
Start packing for weekend
Find something for me to wear to party
and DS
Get DS from nursery done
DS bath done
Carbonara for tea done
Empty dishy done
Sort kitchen

Important
Get cake for mums 60th! - ordered

Also
Earth up potatoes
Do some exercise x 3 times a week - done x1
Buy new bathmat DONE! - been on list for ages
Home facial

MuppetsMuggle · 24/06/2009 21:57

Evening Slatterns

Clairy I hope your okay? and your finger has stopped bleeding.

JKS good to see you had a good holiday. LOL about MIL load of washing a day.

Alice I do feel a little cheerier, body is killing me but inside i feel good

As of today I am now an Accredited Legal Secretary

Well don't bother to watch Transformers 2 - It was pants. However, my DP liked it as the main female character showed her arse and alot of boob!

My List tomorrow is:

Get us up & Dressed
breakfast
Doctors appointment
school run
take friend to hospital - she is another friends birthing partner
hoover
polish
tidy and make sure kitchen is clean
put washing on
hang washing out
go into college for appointment with LSA
come home sharpish as housing manager is coming to make sure we've settled in
school run
sort dinner
bath DD
get DD to bed
collapse lol

Alibabaandthe40nappies · 24/06/2009 22:25

MM - well done!

Alice that sounds lovely. I am thinking about repainting our dining room in a similar colour, it is red at the moment. It is all one big room with the living room though and that has got a red sofa and other things in it which wouldn't go with anything blue, and would be expensive to replace!!

HMHB - that sounds exhausting - I bet you are already thinking longingly of maternity leave!! Will you keep DS in nursery then or will he be at home with you all the time?

DS has finally gone to sleep I think. He is so unsettled since we came back from holiday. I think maybe he got used to sleeping in the same room as us and isn't liking being back on his own - hope he gets used to it soon!!
Can I ask - when the hell do people find the time for ironing? I have been meaning to do some all week - historically I don't iron but I've decided we're too old now to get away with crumples so I am not used to factoring it in. Any tips?

Today
Up and dressed - done
DS dressed - done
Wiifit - done
Unload dishwasher - done
Breakfast x 3 - done
DH into office - done
Hang out washing - done
DS nap - done
Shower and get dressed properly - done
Wipe over bathroom - started
Ocado delivery 11-12 - done
Unpack shopping - done
Fold clean washing - done
Lunch x 2 - done
Request refund from Ocado for apples - done
Into town with DH to find him a new suit - done
Out for walk - no time
Make lamb tagine for dinner - done
Make flapjacks
DS nap - no
Sit down with cup of tea in front of tennis no!
Ironing
Hoover upstairs - done
Dinner x 3 - done
Get washing in - done
Fold clean washing - done
DH to cut grass - done
DS bath and bed - done
Clear up - done
Dishwasher on - done
Empty bin - done
Water veg plants - done
Load of washing into machine to be ready in the morning - done
Relax - doing

Ongoing/this week
DRINK WATER
Lose weight - 7lbs down
Sort out DS' wardrobe
Shoe cull - 2 pairs gone
Clean insides of patio doors
Book smear
Book Drs app for next Friday
Clean kitchen windows
Put up stairgates
Tip runs

Tomorrow
Up and dressed
Wiifit
DH into office early
DS dressed
Breakfast x 2
Hang out washing
Get bag ready for swimming
DS nap
Shower and get dressed properly
Unload dishwasher
Tidy kitchen
Swimming class with DS
Home and lunch x 2
Get washing in and fold
Ironing?????
Make flapjacks
Over to friends for tea and a catch up
DS dinner
Playtime/story
DS bath and bed
Me and DH dinner, stirfry
Clear up
Water veg plants
Relax

MuppetsMuggle · 24/06/2009 22:34

Ali When you find the answer about the ironing let me know

Comewhinewithme · 25/06/2009 08:11

ALi I put things away unironed and then iron as I need them .

Waves to all slatterns hope everyone is ok bit dull here but going to brighten up later hopefully .

All up washed and dressed doneexceptLola
Breakfast done
RR done
Quick tidy round started
Worry all day about DS been @ big school doing
School/nursery run X2
Make beds done
Hoover everywhere
Mop floors
Tea
Put all clean washing away
washing /drying started
meal plan next week
uniforms
online shop
Baths
RR
Bedtimes

alicecrail · 25/06/2009 08:27

Good morning slatterns

Well done *muppets

clairy how are you?

cwwm you are doing well this morning!

My Grandad is coming over today to do a load of carpentry, including putting up loads of shelves!!! You wouldn't believe how excited i am

Everone up done
Everyone breakfast done (well, i haven't actually had mine yet, but will have some when i feel like it)
Everyone dressed
Wipe down kitchen done
Load dishwasher done
Have spatone doing
Put lots of washing on 1st load on
Dry lots of washing
Put clean throws on sofas
Garden?
Hoover living room
Lunch
Horses - ride both (MUST DO)
Dinner
DD bath and bed

FAQinglovely · 25/06/2009 08:36

ok list proper today - and I'll do it - AND update it - promise - got a bit out of the habit.

In no particular order (well apart from the obvious)

DS's up and dressed
DS1 and 2 out to school
Empty dishwasher
Put load of stuff in for a quick rinse
Washing
Pay bills
Dinner
Open Evening at DS's school
Toddlers
Lunch
Sort bookcase
Study
Ironing
Withdraw money for final rent
Sort worktops
Sort top of piano

ermm - that'll do for now

OP posts:
JustKeepSwimming · 25/06/2009 08:39

CWWM - good luck for today

Ali - i tend to do mine in the evening after boys have gone to bed in front of the tv - though it takes up most of an evening then. if i can i grab moments when ds2 is asleep and ds1 happily watching tv otherwise engaged and do some then.
it's got to all be accessible and easy to set up otherwise i find it gets put off.

I woke at random times in the night and ds1 up at 4am crying for his slippers
meant they all slept a bit later which is good, took me aaages to get back to sleep prob 5amish.

Thursday:

  • all usual; b-fast DONE, dressed, DONE, kitchen TIDIED
  • ds1 to pre-sch
  • ds2 nap
  • start normal laundry
  • planning for party in July
  • poss test run of some strawberry cakes?
  • tidy toys properly
  • collect ds1
  • friend possibly coming round, not sure
  • some food shopping if ds2 lets us
  • ds2 nap
  • tea
  • boys bath and bed
  • dinner (dh home at some point)
  • bed

Ongoing:

  • rediscover favourites to save on new laptop DoneMore
  • contact handyman (sort list)
  • get photos of family & hang them up
  • buy some cheap photo albums
  • find correct sized refills for filofax pen
  • get on with friend's family tree
  • transfer all family tree stuff over to Mac software
  • then go through 1911 census (again) for research
  • make a holiday collage with ds1 to send to Bro & SIL
alicecrail · 25/06/2009 09:00

Everone up done
Everyone breakfast done (well, i haven't actually had mine yet, but will have some when i feel like it)
Everyone dressed done
Wipe down kitchen done
Load dishwasher done
Have spatone doing
Put lots of washing on 1st load on
Dry lots of washing
Put clean throws on sofas done
Garden?
Hoover living room done
Lunch
Horses - ride both (MUST DO)
Dinner
DD bath and bed

JustKeepSwimming · 25/06/2009 09:31

Thursday:

  • all usual; b-fast DONE, dressed, DONE, kitchen TIDIED
  • ds1 to pre-sch DONE
  • see cat killed by car & driver drive off DONE &
  • ring a few doorbells to try and find owner DONE (think i may have done but not sure, they were going to look and i came home with ds2)
  • ds2 nap Doing
  • start normal laundry AboutTo
  • planning for party in July
  • poss test run of some strawberry cakes?
  • tidy toys properly
  • collect ds1
  • friend possibly coming round, not sure
  • some food shopping if ds2 lets us
  • drop off card & voucher for friend's DD (1 today)
  • ds2 nap
  • tea
  • boys bath and bed
  • dinner (dh home at some point)
  • bed
wastingmyeducation · 25/06/2009 09:32

Morning!

Congratulations Muppets!

Hope you're feeling better this morning Clairey.

DIY Grandad, sounds awesome Alice.

Ali - I don't do any ironing. DH does his own when he needs something, but there's always a big boxful and he just wears the same few things from the top of the pile.
I probably should iron, but I want to keep on top of the important things before I take up a new hobby.

  • DS dressed done
  • put DS washing away done
  • sort washing done
  • breakfast, clear up
  • dry pots
  • clean sink
  • wash the pans that were soaking
  • Me dressed
  • washing
  • wait for British Gas Homecare man
  • what next?
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