[Wanders wearily on to thread and slumps down in to naughty corner]
Have sorted bed sheets, got dh to help me move beds around in dd's room, swept cobwebs from corners of sitting room and bathroom (a precarious job as it involves very tall ladders) ironed table cloths, washed and ironed bunting, hoovered stairs, bought cake ingreds and drinks and snacks and ice, organised outside activity, lined cake tins, found decorations etc etc. Just about to wrap some presents (although dd's birthday not for another week in reality).
Inappropriate in circs, given yesterday's events in France, and I should be counting my blessings but just having small moment of fatigue/childish mini-strop over dd's sleepover tomorrow .. .
I normally throw myself in to party organisation with great energy but CBA today for some reason and need to get over myself frankly!
DD really deserves a good time for her birthday with her friends but last weekend we did cooking for five thousand (which turned out to be quite stressful because of totally self-inflicted lack of organisation) then five hr round trip to collect dd from camp and drop off friends, then trip to London for family event. Weekend before that was dominated by shopping and packing for camp. Before that = exams. Before that ballet spectacle etc etc.
I know I have it so easy with an 'only' compared to most of you on here, and all of this is totally normally and to be expected and I seem to make heavy weather of things but just wish sometimes there was a weekend which didn't involve an obligation to something/other people!
Not helped by dd's mood atm which is totally normal for a teenage but heavy going with bumptious attitude and constant nagging to help!
Heigh no, I should see all of these events as fantastic opportunities not obligations but my bunion hurts 
Just heading out to take dd to dentist now ...