i have just spent over an hour reclaiming frontroom from utter chaos
i have been upatairs laden down with toys x4
removed 1/2 carrier bag rubbish
1carrier bag recycling
returned 40 books to the shelves
its not too bad when its just us but when dp here its hell-he lets them get books out to "lean on" whilst drawing and he uses them too for drawng pictures for them often getting loads books out to pick a picture to copy.they are never put back.toys migrate down and never return
when dd1 visits they bring toys down and play inappropriately with things
i think its all for attention but i find it makes me very frustrated as we are now trying to be me tidy and organized
in an ideal world i wouldve raised them frm birth to be tidy but i fell out of the messy tree and hit every branch on the ay down so find it hard work and a new skill im still battling with
now the tidy bus has passed through i am desperate to keep it half decent and trying to calm down so i dont spend all day moaning about being messy
am i being unreasonable?
is it just me?