Freak - seen some of the back story and
. It doesn't sound to an outsider like he is really thinking much of you. Sorry if that's intrusive but you do sound sad, and you also sound like a really caring person.
Hi Shaxx, hope you are making progress with your list.
JKS, while I am being pushy
, your dentist to do... I have seen it on your list since I started lurking because it was on mine. I did it last week, looked up on NHS for dentists taking on NHS patients in my area, rang down the list. First said no more space, second one took us all. It took me less than 10 minutes in total including making appointments!!!!!!
Anyway, my day so far...
WEDNESDAY - DONE
change children's beds done waiting for second load to dry
DS swimming lesson done
check bank account done
moving savings to new account done
make children's beds done BUT NEED TO DO DS'S AGAIN BECAUSE HE WEE'D IN IT DURING HIS NAP 
WEDNESDAY - TO DO
look into shred and possibly order
make counselling appointment
tidy inside my wardrobe
put away washing
meal plan for weekend
organise ds's hospital stay this weekend
DD ballet lesson
DD homework
DD final 3 thank you cards (finally - but just in time for Xmas!!)
Wrap 3 xmas presents
CHRISTMAS
Wrap presents STARTED
Christmas card list
Finish list of presents
Order last presents on line
Meal plan for entertaining between Xmas and New Year DONE
Shopping list for entertaining
Decide which presents to give DS and which to save for birthday