Mozhe IS NOT going back to work next week after all......

[mozhe]

.....no, have decided to delay it by a week or so......Mr Mozhe is on 'incubator watching' duties....P-in-L's are manning the home front,( and DSsX3...), with nice new aupair....and Mozhe,Nanny and DTs are off to St Barts,( in lovely Carribean...),for a week's sun/swim/chill out !!
Any one been before ? Any pointers ? Off first thing tomorrow......

no i don't think it is.

derek obviousl;y hasn't got any appointment s this afternoon

Has this been deleted yet?

Obviously not

What kind of truck do you drive Mohze?

not a ruck liesel-probably a mondeo from the fleet

truck

OMG you have to be kidding right ? You are going to leave you very prem baby in SCBU to go off on holiday ?

I would so hate to be the type of person that could do that and not give a shit.

My Dd2 was in SCBU for 2 weeks, and I cried when I had to leave her there and go home, which was only about 20 min away, and she wasn;t even ill, or very prem.

I even felt bad the one night when we popped into a pub for something to eat on the way home from visiting her, it just felt wrong.

I agree with everyone who has said, what on earth is the point of you having kids if you are going to do that.

I would describe mothers who want to be in the same country as their 2 week old prem baby as emotionally continent (no pun intended)

Why can't you lot just accept that people are different?

because mn would be very very dull

imagine

Poster 1:Oh I have decided to bottle feed my baby with my dog's milk

Poster 2: Well, that's a bit different but I accept that everyone has their own ideas

Poster 3: Personally I wouldn't but hey, live and let live

zzzzzzzzzz

lol CD

"I think all of us are a bit shocked about how little YOU will miss HIM"

Haven't read the entire thread - too long...just up to that quote early on.......well that must make me a terrible person too - as I've never had any issues about 'missing' my children (either as babies, toddlers or primary school aged) when we've been apart for a day (or more)......go on - shoot me now (then I won't have to go to the rehearsal at church tonight - with all 3 children in tow ).

I don't pine for ds on the days I am at work but that's not the same as going off on holiday when your premature baby is in the SCBU.

but a week in the carribean with child in scbu
if you thr birth announcement threads they seem very unemotional - almost dead pan

PMSL that this thread is still going.

PMSL that this thread is still going.

Presume from the thread title that mohze is going back to work when she comes back from holiday

ditto laurie fairy cake

Eric - If i thought for a second she was real I wouldnt have said it. Fact is, I think it is all bolleuax (french styleee)

But i was thinking it anyway awen

lol

Don't bother with crocs - you'll get sand all over your toes. Just take t-shirts and 3 or 4 sarongs.

Take shirts which open as you're still b/f'ng the dts

Good point Cammelia.

It's not something I would do. It's too far, the door of the ward was too far for me.

But I would just say that when you have a sick child you do sometimes keep them at arms length - don't get attached 'just in case' . Maybe mozhe is doing that, maybe consciously, maybe not. Sometimes it's the only way to stay sane.