Mozhe IS NOT going back to work next week after all......

[mozhe]

.....no, have decided to delay it by a week or so......Mr Mozhe is on 'incubator watching' duties....P-in-L's are manning the home front,( and DSsX3...), with nice new aupair....and Mozhe,Nanny and DTs are off to St Barts,( in lovely Carribean...),for a week's sun/swim/chill out !!
Any one been before ? Any pointers ? Off first thing tomorrow......

if the medical staff wer concerned they would have said - twas not I that asserted death in this jumped up senario.

custy, I think people who try and try and try to have babies might disagree with the fact you think they are overrated .

As far as this is concerned, I don't honestly think Mozhe expected this to be a sarong and crocs thread, surely she would have seen what reaction this would have caused. Completely provocative and attention seeking IMO.

My SIL has PND because she was kept apart from her newborn premmie baby for 12 hours whilst she was whisked away to another hospital. I am not sure Mozhe realises what she might be letting herself in for. I didn't even want to let my full term perfectly healthy baby out of my site whilst my MIL too her to feed the ducks so this whole thing is completely bonkers to me (at risk of being called "emotionally incontinent here )

I tried and tried and tried to have babies - don't feel that is terribly relevant to choices mozhe makes.

You know, if this was a teenager going off on a week's holiday and leaving her baby in SCBU you would expect a referral to the psychiatrists and/or social services....

I was referring to the fact that custy said they were overrated kew.

Well if someone would have provided me with a holiday after ds was born (or even a days respite), I would have taken it without hesitation.

Not only did I not feel maternal towards him, if there was a realistic possibility that I could have escaped the situtation even for a little while I would have done.

I did not bond with my son when he was born and being with him day in, day out did not help the bonding process in any way - it only made me resent him. In the event, I returned to work asap to get away as there was no holiday on offer.

You are quite free to judge my lack of maternal feeling if you wish.

and where you happy with feeling like that?

If what you say is real..

You are a mental health professional.

I am a mental health professional.

I urge you to go and see a mental health professsional.

I'm not sure mozhe is planning on having 5 more .

Piss take

Gotta be

Otherwise...shame on you

Sorry but that is truly awful and I am deeply deeply shocked

Kerrymubledore - I did go on to have one more as I grew to love my son (eventually). I loved her from before she was born.

Presumably this has not been a problem that Mozhe has had with her previous children.

What I do know is that there were times when I came close to hating my son (and sorry if that offends anyone) and getting away would have been best for us both.

I urge lots of you to go and see mental health professionals re your abnormal interest in the life of someone you have never met

I would like to add that I am not in the remotest bit jealous - I have no desire whatsoever to be the kind of mother who could leave a newborn in hospital while she goes on holiday. I think it would have killed me to do so actually and I think it's pretty sad and unatural to be able to do it - I don't think it's unatural to want to do it or dream about it longingly, but completely unatural to actually do it.

going back to work quickly is (for example) very very common in the US. Are you suggesting that they are all unbonded with their children. I have no idea how well bonded she is with her older children, couldn't even begin to speculate based on such little information. If I had to speculate about this particlar child I would say that she probably isn't particularly bonded with him yet. Not really surprising but I'm not sure a week away from him is going to change that one way or another.

But do agree with CD am thoroughly ashamed of my ability to get sucked into a thread I really don't care that much about

and I don;t think Mozhe suggested anyone was jealous did she? I think that was someone else.?

Mozhe-Xenia are weirdly alike, and Mozhe suddenly appears on MN backing up most things Xenia says (often controversial). But while Xenia comes across as pig-ignorant sometimes, she doesn't tell us an implausible lifestory....

I'm still trying to figure out how Mozhe conceived her Tristan in the first place,
...at the age of 43
...after only few months of trying
...while still fully breastfeeding (no solids or formula yet) 7 month old twins
...very shortly after having a sterilisation reversed.

F'ing A, she ought to bottle her fertility genes and flog them to biotech companies.

is there a row going on?

pmsl!!!!!!!!!!

is that all 'true'.....

oh well then, what is everyone geting all worked up for? the woman is obviously a sales rep from swindon called derek!

rofl CD

Lijk - oh lost interest now. I thought it was plausible to begin with but clearly not.

Janitor - PMSL. Spot on!!

Awen

Your comment about the au-pair was fucking disgraceful and you should be ashamed of yourself. If mozhe is slightly post-natally depressed do you think a comment like that would help?

Seriously, bang out of order

this cant be for real?