I like the Brands hatch Place hotel near to Bluewater (Fawkham in Kent). My hubbie and I go there foe our wedding anniversary without the kids. we upgrade to a Executive room so he has his plasma tv and large bed. It has a spa next to the hotel (sort of attached) yet because its next door you aren't paying spa hotel prices. I normally book myself in for my treatments before we go there (recommended) you can go teh back roads to Bluewater if you want shopping, restaurants etc at night. There is a little country lane route there
Its one of the handpicked group of hotels. They wiill get your cases out of the car, teh restaurant is a la carte so we normally eat out there is a local pub or we may go to Bluewater
Cheapest way of booking it is normally with last minute .com although if you email me the dates etc (if you like it) I can see if I can get it any cheaper for you as I am a travel agent.
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