My son is in his first year at Uni and I find it so frustrating and annoying that his focus seems to be the social side rather than actually studying. I know I will get a list of comments from people about how they spent three years partying etc etc which I accept but it bugs me that I’m paying a lot of money on what seems like a long party. Am I the only one that gets frustrated and how do I manage this because it’s very much impacting on my relationship with him as I’m resenting him spending my money. Should also say that fist lot of essays came back with a 2:2 and he thinks, I quote, worked his arse off. How can you be when you are getting in at 3am and rocking up at lectures hungover and tired.