I have just come across this thread and wish I knew about it the past 2 years! Thankfully, my daughter is in her 1st year BA but I will share her rollercoaster journey! I fear this will be a long post!!
For context, she is autistic so always had me as the person with authority to contact everywhere, as she explained on her applications that she struggles to make phone calls herself. We always called rather than emailed – all were always lovely and we got very quick responses to queries.
Her 1st year applying was during her UAL Level 3 Extended Diploma MT course, so she was already pursuing full time PA. However, she had only been having formal dance training for 2 years since leaving school – she had come up through Stagecoach from the age of 7 and then had moved onto an excellent theatre group. She also had up to Level 6 LAMDA exams under her belt – but never any dance exams. She applied very early and got the following:
Urdang – rejected
GSA – recalled then rejected
The Hammond – BA MT Offer
Emil Dale - rejected
Italia Conti – recalled then waitlisted for BA Acting (MT)
Performers, Royal Welsh and Trinity Laban – withdrew as Conti 1st choice; Hammond 2nd
Then she started having doubts. She was having friendship issues (very common when ASD) and the girls on her course who she was struggling with also got offered The Hammond. So she went into a spiral of overthinking and no longer wanted to go to The Hammond, in spite of us accepting and finding her halls to live in. So she decided she wanted to do a Foundation course at Pendleton College instead. I called them to explain and they said she could go for an audition, even though the UCAS deadline had long gone (this was April/May time). On the off chance, I rang Italia Conti and asked them what the chance was of her getting off the waitlist and would she be considered for the Cert HE course in MT instead, as she really wanted to try and develop her dance more. That very afternoon, they rang her and offered her a place on the Cert course. She was over the moon as she had dreamed of Conti since she was 14.
Then came the overthinking. And she kept mee-mawing saying she didn’t know if she wanted to pursue it any more and was really doubting herself. In the end, she decided to give it a go as it was only a year! The night before she went, she was breaking her heart on me (and mine) saying she didn’t want to go, but she did. And I was so proud of her. But the first term was tough and she nearly dropped out a few times but wouldn’t seek the support she was entitled to because she didn’t want to ‘look weird!’ (her words) I managed to ring their student support and they dropped into her class and she finally accepted the support she so needed and she finally settled.
So this took us to the 2nd year of applying. She desperately wanted to stay at Conti by this point, and her results were as follows:
Arts1 – BA MT offer
The Brighton Academy – BA MT offer (singer/dancer pathway to her shock)
Rose Bruford – rejected (Acting curveball on a whim!)
Central – rejected
Emil Dale – rejected
GSA – recalled then rejected
Performers – withdrew
Italia Conti – rejected (even though waitlisted previous year)
Bird – last minute audition – applied 2 days before final audition date – waitlisted for BA MT
So she accepted TBA and I paid the holding deposit and found her halls to live in. Then the final curveball. She performed in her Conti Cert show in June and left Guildford and moved home the following day. Then the week after the show, she got an email from The Head of MT inviting her to a Teams recall for the Acting MT degree that she had been waitlisted for the year before. So she did the recall the following week, then was rejected again! This time the email said should another place become available, then it would be hers – and she was offered a place the following week. This was in July and she was shaking and crying with joy!
She is very happy now on the Italia Conti Acting (MT) course. She’s an over thinker so does worry sometimes that she only has 2 dance lessons a week, but her singing is very strong and her acting is coming on hugely on this course. The degree sits very much within their Acting school so I think it offers her a more versatile career afterwards.
Please feel free to ask me any questions. It was surely a rollercoaster!