Sendsummers post about Australia recruiting UK doctors to fill vacancies in unattractive locations is interesting. There are less attractive locations in the UK where rents are significantly lower than in the SE, and houses are affordable. Doctors in those places are considered well paid, and indeed seem to enjoy a status not found in London.
With us putting us putting a small amount of money in, DD was able to buy a three bed semi in a quiet street in a reasonably central area. It is perfectly possible to find a two up, two down terrace for £100,000-120,000. Rents are also low, and though pay per hour isn't great, F1s work a lot of hours, so saving is definitely possible. (DD does not have loans so had already decided to put that money aside, but was also able to save the difference between her rent and a London rent and a bit more as most things are cheaper.) She is not alone. The teacher son of a friend was able to buy in Lincolnshire aged 23-24. Whilst the North East is supposed to be cheaper still.
Everyone has wobbles in their careers. Medicine can be both secure and long lived. A friend say is enjoying her "retire and return" after being a senior consultant in a busy London hospital. Ditto my GP cousin who is happy to locum a day or two each week without the responsibility of running a practice. Different from the bankers who start looking over their shoulders when they hit forty and the next wave of redundancies looms.
The shortage of training places is a real problem and needs to be fixed.
That, the shock of the new and the brutal hours were the cause of DDs initial despondency. However since then she had grown in confidence and experience so work is less stressful, has made medic friends and friends outside medicine, and really does seem to be having a ball. I think it is great that she getting new experiences. I lived abroad a lot in my 20s and don't regret it for an instant. She may well return to London at some point, but that is a choice for her to make further down the line.
My recommendation for those close to having to select preferences is to look carefully at the less popular deaneries, and decide if there are any that appeal for whatever reason. For example we knew someone very keen to do a form of extreme emergency medicine, who selected Newcastle and busy Friday night shifts in A&E. Or Scotland, with all that outdoors and a good festival in August ? Perhaps grandparents in Wales? Then put four top preferences and a fifth that you are almost certain to get, and which becomes the least worst outcome.
And mumsneedwine, in terms of research, this is not down to money. DD opted not to apply for an F1 research post because she felt she wanted to focus fully on her day job, but others did. She worked in a research lab for her elective, something she got by simply writing to people working in the field she was interested in, and which qualified her to be one (of many) authors. Training slots are now extremely competitive, so the more you have on your CV the better. The number of training positions needs to be expended so that they are available to good hard working doctors who will make good consultants, not just the high flyers.