To those who say there is no need to visit a student more than twice a year – that’s fine if that is your experience. However we are all different and some (many?) students prefer to see family more often.
I myself moved a long long way from home when I was a student and went home by train. I also had a grant and no fees to pay. My DC were both self catering and that meant they had a lot of stuff. DS2 plays a sport which has a lot of big kit. It’s worth £££ so I would not be happy with him leaving it for a month (and in any case he needs it with him). It’s totally not in any way feasible for him to carry it and his personal luggage on a train. DD plays a musical instrument that she would not want to leave in halls or a house. So pick-up and drop-off at each end of term was a must (so that’s six visits).
As I said, my DS is very keen on us coming to watch him play – yes, he would not in any way demand it if he were more far-flung, but without doubt it’s a nice thing for him (and me). DD would have really struggled if I had refused to visit her or allow her to come home in her first year. I think it was OK for me to support her in the way that she wanted.
Actually DD did use "no more than 2 hours from home" as one of her main initial criteria. I think that makes her realistic - she knew she might need support. We are pretty central tho so that really only ruled out Scotland, Wales and the very south of England.
DS did not use that criterion fwiw and considered Dundee and other Scottish unis along with Exeter and Bristol; funnily enough he is even nearer home than DD was - luckily it's a uni with a high student satisfaction rating :) (a very sporty one haha). He is having a great time.
No one is saying (well I certainly am not) that all students should be within an hour’s drive. I am just flagging it as something that is worth considering. A friend had DC at uni in Kent and Cornwall – for good reasons in both cases and successfully – but boy did she get fed up with the driving and the staying in Travelodges. Because yes, she did go and visit them now and then. More than twice a year at any rate.
I think we all need to beware of taking our own experience as universal (me too I am sure). “They [DC] don’t want you at uni” – some (many?) DC don’t but some do. “No one comes home to work after uni” – many will not but some will.
Anyway OP I think the consensus is that there are many factors to be considered when choosing a uni. Hope your DD can find somewhere she will be happy.