Hi all
Please indulge me and let me rant a bit! It's the only safe space on social media where I won't be accused of boasting and first world problems 
DS had Durham firmed at A*AA
York as insurance at AAA
Both to study PPE
He was awarded A*BB. Durham immediately said no but York said yes, allocated him a fabulous college and have been really welcoming. He paid his deposit on Sunday
CAGs from school this morning A*AA
He rang Durham, who said they weren't sure how it was going to pan out but they'd confirm whether he had a place by 7th Sept
He's happy to wait til then, even though it might be a deferred place, or a college he doesn't like or even accommodation out of college. He will always have regrets of "what if" if he doesn't wait and see what they say. My heart says go to York! But he's just like DH, who says he'd wait too. I also think it's being quite rude and unfair to York. But maybe manners are off the table right now?
I feel irrationally stressed and annoyed by all this and am sitting in a field with my book while DS2 (GCSEs!!) is at football training. I want to scream 😱
Sorry. As you were 