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Applying for Uni 2020 :2: Offers arriving

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MillicentMartha · 18/10/2019 21:34

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/higher_education/3655914-Applying-for-Uni-2020?pg=40

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Hoghgyni · 21/10/2019 20:03

Moi?

sandybayley · 21/10/2019 20:16

Me neither. I've decamped over here to escape. Much nicer vibe.

oneteen · 21/10/2019 20:33

We are all aiming for the same goals - ours DC's happiness in whatever Uni they should choose...there are hurdles for every DC to jump, some Oxbridge some jump hurdles to even get to Uni...In fact, some get to Uni and decide that they have jumped a hurdle that they should have refused... (Ironoaks I feel like the sweety shop is coming into force again).

Sorry, probably feeling more than a little annoyed that having finally got my DD to jump a hurdle and complete her UCAS App the starter has disappeared....

MillicentMartha · 21/10/2019 20:41

snozzlemaid my DS is in the same boat. Hoping we’ll submit our bit this week. I’m getting jealous of all these offers! Grin Must keep reminding myself it’s a marathon not a sprint.

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Hoghgyni · 21/10/2019 20:45

DD has 5 months now to agonise. I've just described it as being a bit like a game of chess, except that she is blind and can't get the concept.

Hoghgyni · 21/10/2019 20:47

Whoops. It has deleted the middle bit of my sentence. I've just described it to my cousin as being like a game of chess, except she is blind and can't visualise it to get the concept.

Ironoaks · 21/10/2019 20:57

Good to know the analogy is still holding up.

sandybayley · 21/10/2019 20:58

Well said @oneteen - we all want the best for our DC. And for everyone else's DC. Let's post in that spirit, sharing tips and celebrating success.

I'd forgotten about @Ironoaks sweet shop analogy. Summed up the UCAS process beautifully.

sandybayley · 21/10/2019 20:59

@Hoghgyni - have you been on the gin 😉?

DrDeluxe · 21/10/2019 21:08

Dropping in with no offers on the table yet. Has anyone had an offer from Leeds yet? DS has applied to various places that seem to have made late offers in the past but was hoping that Leeds might be one of the earlier ones.

Hoghgyni · 21/10/2019 21:21

Yes! Pizza Express do a jolly nice orange & cacao gin & ginger ale. Unfortunately I can't claim it on expenses.

HesMyLobster · 21/10/2019 21:42

Dr nothing from Leeds yet for DD. Haven't heard of any offers from them so far, on here or in real life.

I might join you on the gin Hoghgyni - I'm up to at least 800 tongue bites now!

ZandathePanda · 21/10/2019 22:47

Hello Hoghgyni and others. Yes (to question upthread), Dd only put 2 choices down. We went to 5 different unis and she only liked two courses. And she fell in love with Newcastle and the course was best out of the two. She got her form in early so her offers were before the closing date. Had she not got two offers she would have had to have a rethink. Last year you could submit then keep on adding afterwards to make it up to 5. Tbh a lot of courses were all offering AAA to AAB/ABB with EPQ. She got Astar Astar A and so could technically applied for adjustment but had no need to because she was so set on Newcastle.
Her school were a bit anti her applying for 2. There’s traditionally this 2 aspirational, 2 feasible and 1 ifitallgoespearshaped split for track. However there were lots of people that dropped out during the first year from her school, from the year before her (over 20%). So I think the school were happy she had found a perfect fit.
Hope this helps people.

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nodtik · 22/10/2019 03:45

@Hoghgyni wow an early offer from Durham and a reduced one too!! That's flipping amazing!! Well done to your daughter 🌸🌸🌸

I won't tell DS as that's his first choice and he will get anxious that offers are being made!! I've told him he won't hear from them until after Christmas 🎄

We're also waiting on Edinburgh and Bangor... has anyone else heard from either?

Hello to all the new folks on the thread. It's lovely hearing so many offers coming in!

However I want to know @Ironoaks what the seer shop analogy is!! Xx

Ironoaks · 22/10/2019 07:06

We were discussing the idea that everyone who applies by the January deadline has an equal chance of receiving an offer if they meet the criteria. ExCwmbranDweller was saying that feels counter-intuitive, because if you have a bag of 500 sweets and you give out lots of them at the beginning, you'll be less generous as time goes on and you worry about running out.

I gave this reply:

I think it's more like a sweet shop with a climbing wall outside. Every year they hold an event where those children who have a sweet voucher and climb high enough on the wall can have a sweet. The children practise climbing at school, and all have a certificate saying how high they can usually climb.

The owners recorded how many children got to which heights last year (and the year before etc). They only have about 500 sweets but they know from experience they can offer sweet vouchers to 1000 children, because 50% of the children always decline and decide they want a sweet from a different shop. Based on the heights the children reached in previous years, the owners attach a horizontal bar to the climbing wall that approximately the right number of children will reach. Everyone can see how high this is.

The sweet shop announces that the children can come and show their certificates and ask for a sweet voucher.

The children arrive in dribs and drabs over the course of several weeks. The owners decide to offer a sweet voucher to any child whose certificate states they can climb to within 2 metres of the bar. The last child to come gets the same treatment as the first child to come, to make it fair, even if this means handing out extra sweet vouchers.

If the owners hand out over 500 sweet vouchers, they don't worry too much. A few of the children might decide to give their sweet voucher back, and several won't be able to climb as high as they thought. If the owners hand out a lot more than 500 sweet vouchers, they might make a note to set the bar a little higher next year.

When the children eventually climb the wall, the owners find that significantly fewer than 500 children actually reach the bar, so the owners decide that any child with a sweet voucher who reached within 1 metre of the bar can claim their sweet.

Even then, there are still a few sweets left over, so the owners then offer up the remaining sweets to any other child (without a voucher) who also reached within 1 metre of the bar, in a first come, first served system.

Hoghgyni · 22/10/2019 07:33

The only thing the sweet shop didn't mention is what they plan to do with the shaky children!

Hoghgyni · 22/10/2019 07:36

We had written off Edinburgh & Durham until next spring, so it was a lovely surprise last night. I think Edinburgh is firmly out of the running now. I must confess that I've been checking just how long it will take to go from one end of the country to the other and pulling faces as it looks as though I will be spending my 50th birthday travelling.

Pepermintea · 22/10/2019 07:46

Just catching up on the thread again. Big congratulations to all those who have got offers.

No offers yet here - much tongue biting from me too Lobster!

sandybayley · 22/10/2019 08:02

@Hoghgyni - I hadn't factored my birthday into university choices.

By the time I'm 50 two of the three DC will be at uni and the third will be about to do A Levels. DH has mentioned going to the Himalayas (he will also be 50 that year) so if the DC are busy at least they won't try and gate crash our trip.

Hoghgyni · 22/10/2019 08:46

Himalayas v Durham. Hmmm.

oneteen · 22/10/2019 09:18

@Hoghgyni - I will be factoring in the 60th Birthday (god that sounds old) at the point that DD starts Uni... fortunately my birthday falls just before the welcome week.

Hoghgyni · 22/10/2019 09:49

It depends for me which one she accepts now. Is it fair to make her pick an insurance offer based on which weekend they start & whether there are nice hotels in the region?

goodbyestranger · 22/10/2019 09:59

I've certainly ruled out one choice for DD on the grounds it will clash with the easyjet flights already booked for the whole family to France. Completely legit.

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