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Talk to other parents whose children are preparing for university on our Higher Education forum.

Our DC are nearly all officially students now (going to university 2019/20) - seizing the moment, spending, socialising, societies and studying!

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NewModelArmyMayhem18 · 17/09/2019 16:00

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[Edited by MNHQ to fix the link]

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JennyWreny · 17/09/2019 16:21

Thanks for the new thread New Still 10 days to go here!!!

Witchend · 17/09/2019 16:22

Thank you!
Weekend after next here.
I think dd's getting a bit bored and nervous waiting.

Decorhate · 17/09/2019 16:27

Thanks for the new thread. Ds is off on Saturday. I’m feeling out of sorts already which is partly due to non-uni related minor annoyances but no doubt also worrying about how he will fare.

Alicatz66 · 17/09/2019 16:33

Place marking ... DS 19th Birthday tomorrow... off to Nottingham Saturday !

Alicatz66 · 17/09/2019 16:34

Same here @Decorhate ... too many plates spinning here 😫

notso · 17/09/2019 16:54

Missed the last thread or maybe two in the whirlwind of back to school and prepare for university.
Dropped DD off in on Saturday. Cried at home when she said goodbye to my two youngest 8 & 7 but the rest of the day was positive. Taking stuff up to her flat was a bit hectic but afterwards the four of us had a nice lunch, took her to get a supermarket shop and then left her to it.

So far so good, she likes her flat mates, they've already clubbed together to buy a table for the communal area to sit round and some bean bags and they've had a meet up with the other flat on that floor.
She rang today to say she didn't make it out last night as she drank to much and the spare waste paper bin I bought her made a useful sick bucket!
She's not one for drinking loads or having loads of nights out so think she'll be glad once this week is over.

minesawine · 17/09/2019 16:55

Thanks for the new thread. The posts about DC's being upset and not liking uni are scaring me. What if he really hates it. Slight panic attack going on! Me, not him.

NewModelArmyMayhem18 · 17/09/2019 16:59

I am not knowingly feeling sad yet but I am all of a dither at the moment which is most likely indicative that I am fazed by it all!

How are those DC feeling who still have a week to a fortnight to go before heading off? DS seems to be one of the last ones left from his school cohort (with the exception of the Oxbridge bound young people) and he's getting a bit bored.

Happy Birthday to your DS @Alicatz66.

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BringOnTheScience · 17/09/2019 17:20

First big night out last night. DC1 has found their musical peers, an open mic night & the punk/emo venue.

Then slept in when they should have been online for the Green Day / Fall Out Boy / Weezer tour tickets going on sale. Luckily, I am awesome and bought them anyway! 🤘🎸🤣

Trewser · 17/09/2019 17:32

Thursday here. I must say I'll be relieved to stop buying house and kitchen stuff. Even though she's taking a lot of our old stuff, I seem to have spent a fortune. There seem to be blue Ikea bags all over the place. She's nervous. Part of me will be relieved from a practical point of view when its all done. But it's dh birthday om Saturday and it was really sad booking a table for one less than usual Sad

icanbewhatiwant · 17/09/2019 17:43

@Trewser yes same here with kitchen stuff and other bits. Ds2 had duke of Edinburgh walk a few weeks back so had to sort stuff for that. Now it's ds1's university stuff (though been collecting bits all summer) when he has gone on Sunday I need to check the shopping list for ds1's school residential in Oct.

Yes I am also a bit worried at how ds will get on. Especially as he's not finding the Facebook chat conversation interesting as it's mostly been about reality tv and getting drunk. He's not interested in either. As I said earlier 7 girls and 3 lads...ds is hoping there will be another lad at least. I'm sure he will be fine though.

DrMadelineMaxwell · 17/09/2019 17:44

Nooooooooo @JennyWreny....
I do know its 10 days really but it still seems so... soon to see it written like that..

Trewser · 17/09/2019 17:45

Two of dds flatmates haven't joined the Facebook group. She is now fascinated by them Grin

Decorhate · 17/09/2019 17:52

Afaik ds hasn’t bothered to find any of his future flat mates on social media.

Ontopofthesunset · 17/09/2019 17:53

Popping back in to say hello. Still waiting here. I really feel for all these young people, particularly the ones who might not seem as ready as others for independence. Gulp. DS was 18 on the last day of August so seems very young in some ways, though he has an active social life and is out till silly hours most night at the moment. I think he will miss his home comforts; he's very settled here (mainly in one place on the sofa).

He still has 3 weeks to go, but I think is hoping to do most of his reading after this weekend, as his friends will mostly have gone by then. We haven't done anything to prepare apart from fill in the forms he was sent. DS1 has just returned home after graduating and so we have a spare single duvet and small clothes airer from his time in halls. Also, at DS's college there are no self-catering facilities for first years, though he can take a kettle and a microwave, so he doesn't need much in the way of kitchen equipment; we need to buy a kettle, but luckily have a spare small microwave we bought when the kitchen was being done.

Alicatz66 · 17/09/2019 17:55

My DS hasn't bothered finding flat mates either ... just going to wait till he gets there .. he's doing English so course girl heavy .. but he's into powerlifting so hopefully make friends in gym as well ... don't know ... he's been a hermit in his room for 6 years 😂😂

Piggywaspushed · 17/09/2019 18:06

Thanks for the new thread !

On a different note, DS just got his letter back from AQA about his Spanish remark. He went up by 12 marks!!!

VanCleefArpels · 17/09/2019 18:07

Placemarking

NewModelArmyMayhem18 · 17/09/2019 18:20

Wow that's excellent @Piggywaspushed! Although not that they didn't mark it correctly to start with Hmm.

DS hasn't bothered finding flatmates either - seems to be a boy thing!

Is your DS going to an Oxbridge college @Ontopofthesunset?

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errorofjudgement · 17/09/2019 18:27

Place marking, following and wishing everyone well

juicy0 · 17/09/2019 19:20

Thank you for the new thread. Only 4 more sleeps until DD moves out 😢

Ginfordinner · 17/09/2019 19:20

Excellent news Piggy
I find it worrying that the future of so many of our young people can be totally messed up by poor marking like this.

If anyone wants to know the profile of universities and male/female profiles The Complete University Guide has it all.

icanbewhatiwant · 17/09/2019 19:41

@Ginfordinner thanks for that. UEA is showing 40% male. Their flat is so far 7 girls to 3 lads so not quite matching up but hopefully another male to come. We don't know how many in the flat. It just says 6 to 13 per flat. Not long till we find out.

Ontopofthesunset · 17/09/2019 19:52

Yes, NewModel - he's off to Oxford. The experience seems a little different in terms of catering etc, and perhaps a bit more sheltered in terms of college structure. Great news on the remark, Piggy - I've been following your son's fortunes from the sidelines and hope he's feeling a bit more settled. It was me who referred to the 'nascent adults', and mine is certainly very young in some ways.

Piggywaspushed · 17/09/2019 19:54

It's a good description ontop