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Guest post: “All women and girls should be able to experience the joy, fulfilment, and lifelong benefits of sport”

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JuliaMumsnet · 09/06/2021 17:07

Stephanie Hilborne

CEO at Women in Sport

Earlier this year, Women in Sport released first a report on the impact of the pandemic on teenage girls' sports and exercise and later launched a campaign on the menopause and sports. We asked CEO Stephanie Hilborne to tell us more about these issues and Women in Sport more widely:

"When someone says the word "sport" what’s the first thing you think of?

For me, it is gazing longingly out of the window at the netball courts during French class. But our charity Women in Sport knows that for many women the opposite is true. "Sport" brings back horrible memories of school. Whether it was being forced to wear “gym knickers” or a leotard when you were on a period or never getting picked for the team because you weren’t “sporty”.

And yet the word sport means “being carried away from stress and responsibility”. It’s about having fun. I don’t know many women who would reject the idea of less responsibility and more freedom.

Now think about exercise. What do you first think about when someone says the word “exercise”? Many women we talk to wince because they think they should be doing more of it. For others, serious exercise conjures up pain and suffering. But when we actually get around to going out for a brisk walk or even a run, we feel great. Our bodies release endorphins when we exercise, which is the healthiest way to get high.

Women in Sport has been looking into the lives of teenage girls and women during the last year and finding out how lockdown has affected women’s experiences of, and views on, exercise and sport. Before the pandemic, Sport England statistics showed that the gap was closing but women were still slightly less active than men overall.

The biggest gender gap was in team sport – with 25% fewer girls than boys involved in teams and paltry opportunities for girls at school. That’s why the closure of schools affected boys’ sports the worst.

Why should we care about team sport? Because being in joint endeavour, in a team, trying to win while having fun brings lifelong benefits. If more girls had positive experiences of team sport at school, more women would enter the workplace and wider society trained to lead, to take risks, and to be resilient if they lose.

So, what did we find out about girls in lockdown? During the pandemic, the Government put exercise front and centre as one of the few ways we were able to leave our homes. This opportunity has released some girls into new worlds. We talked to teenage girls going for walks outside with friends for the first time, and 82% of girls said they would put more effort into being active when life returned to normal. Teenage girls we spoke to recognised the value of exercise for their physical and mental health, some for the very first time. They may not know that research shows a positive impact of outdoor sport on body image, but they are feeling it.

Then we spoke to the women. We know that women have borne the brunt of pandemic redundancies and that home-schooling has exposed ongoing stereotypes and gender inequalities in the home. The women we spoke to were time deprived. 32% of women said they could not prioritise exercise during lockdown as they had too much to do for others. But on the positive side, the crisis has led people to reappraise. People have been resetting their priorities and there is more motivation to exercise than there used to be. 85% of women in our research said they would either put more effort into being fit and active or would keep up being active after lockdown.

Our recent new research into women around the menopause showed that this too can prompt reappraisal. So, the double whammy of an unprecedented pandemic and an unprecedented change in hormones seems to be triggering a bit of a revolution amongst midlife women.

One of the most fascinating insights we gleaned even before the pandemic was how much teenage girls cherished time alone with their mum or mother figures in their lives. They saw such relationships as ‘safe spaces’ without fear of judgement. Lockdown has exaggerated this feeling and girls have appreciated time being active outside, in nature, in a safe context without toxic commentary from peers.

Last year we launched our #TimeTogether campaign based on our understanding that midlife women and teenage girls both face unique physical challenges and pressures, and that they want to support one another. Women and girls also know they ought to be more active, but many find it hard to act on that. So, we’re inspiring women and girls to team up, to get active and have fun together outside. As we go back to some normality post lockdown, this special relationship may well help overcome shared concerns about loss of fitness or being in large groups.

The pandemic has led to a growing intolerance of inequality, whether racial, economic, or gender inequality. At Women in Sport, we’ve been intolerant of this for a long time. We know that less wealthy women from certain diverse backgrounds are the least active of all. How wrong is this, that society is denying these girls and women joy and health?

The pandemic exposed underlying inequalities in society across the board, and elite sport was no exception. In August 2020 a BBC survey of elite British sportswomen showed 86% earnt less than £30k from sport, and 60% less than £10k and one in five believed they may have to give up their sport due to the crisis to focus on having a normal job. At the same time women’s sport all but disappeared from our screens. The women’s football Euros were pushed back to 2022 to make way for the men’s Euros to be played in 2021. The Women’s Six Nations was never completed, the 2020 Netball Super League, Football Women’s Super League and Championship were all cancelled. In contrast, the top three tiers of men’s football continued their 2019-20 season; the men’s Premiership Rugby 2019-20 season restarted in August, the men’s Six Nations was completed.

So it is hardly surprising that half as many girls as boys dreamt about reaching the top of sport (30% cf 60%) in a survey we ran with Sports Direct in March 2021. We should not be denying our girls the chance to dream.

We want to redefine the relationship that many girls and women have with sport and exercise. This should be about fun, and we have a right to fun at every time in our lives. Yes, we could be drawing joy from sport, even as teenagers when everywhere you look people are commenting on your appearance; and even in mid-life when that pressure cooker of responsibility means our own needs come last. We want the legacy of the pandemic to be a break down in negative gender stereotypes and the emergence of a new normal in which all women and girls can experience the joy, fulfilment, and lifelong benefits of sport."

EDIT: Stephanie will be coming back onto the thread at 11am on Thursday 17th June to answer your questions.

Guest post: “All women and girls should be able to experience the joy, fulfilment, and lifelong benefits of sport”
Guest post: “All women and girls should be able to experience the joy, fulfilment, and lifelong benefits of sport”
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carolinesbaby · 19/06/2021 10:27

What counts as 'sport' outside of school?
Neither of my kids play in any teams or go to any sports clubs. I make my DS have swimming lessons because that's a life skill, but he hates them and he'll stop going as soon as he can. Does that count?

Beamur · 19/06/2021 13:29

Shaming non sporty kids doesn't help. In real life or their parents on forums.
Looking at the barriers to inclusion from a structural angle is though.
Why sport? For better health, flexibility, independence in older age, for fun, for mental health. Etc.

Sometimesfraught82 · 19/06/2021 16:54

@ArseInTheCoOpWindow

And if pe is the “only sport” your child does, then something is remiss at home

I bloody loathe sport. My kids are fine thank you.

So you do nothing sporty at all with your children? Genuine question. No physical exertion at all.
Sometimesfraught82 · 19/06/2021 16:56

@Beamur

Shaming non sporty kids doesn't help. In real life or their parents on forums. Looking at the barriers to inclusion from a structural angle is though. Why sport? For better health, flexibility, independence in older age, for fun, for mental health. Etc.
But sport doesn’t have to be team sports.

Biking, walking, climbing trees!! All incorporate fitness and actually sport that is done to a competitive level

Sometimesfraught82 · 19/06/2021 16:59

No judgement of non sporty children here.

But I do think that expecting school to pick this up alongside the multitude of other things - is unreasonable.

My children. I see myself as primarily responsible for encouraging sport and fitness in their lives.

ATieLikeRichardGere · 19/06/2021 17:35

I was never saying PE should be optional because parents should raise their game to make up the difference. Of course they won’t. I was saying that PE should be optional because either way the limited amount of PE you get isn’t going to make a meaningful difference to health for kids who don’t do other physical activity anyway. For kids in unhealthy families we need a whole range of public health measures, but PE probably isn’t one of them. Tackling poverty is something we should do for that. Meanwhile, PE causes lots of literally lifelong harm to kids from all sorts of families.

Sometimesfraught82 · 19/06/2021 17:50

Yes
And my view is that I do not think pe should be optional before 14.

Open to peer pressure, not the cool thing to do etc.

We simply come at this from different angles.

Thankfully I don’t think there’s a cats chance in hell that pe would be made optional

Reallyreallyborednow · 19/06/2021 18:00

I was saying that PE should be optional because either way the limited amount of PE you get isn’t going to make a meaningful difference to health for kids who don’t do other physical activity anyway. For kids in unhealthy families we need a whole range of public health measures, but PE probably isn’t one of them

While an hour or two may not make a massive difference, it will still expose kids who have never tried physical activity or sport, and some of them may even discover they enjoy it or are good at it.

I ran an after school sports club in a deprived area. We had nearly 100% take up, it was all new to many of them, and they found it far more enjoyable than going home or hanging round the streets. Girls in particular and non- footballing boys. Some of them were talented, and got into coaching programmes from there.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 19/06/2021 18:50

My dd avoids PE as much as she can.

She walks to school and back, walks around a massive school 6 times a day, walks to her friends, walks to the shops. Walks everywhere. What’s the point of doing PE?She hates it.

ATieLikeRichardGere · 19/06/2021 19:06

Optional after school sports is great. Because it’s optional. Optional PE could end up with close to 100% uptake if it was good.

But for people who suffer or feel they will have to find excuses to not do something like PE which for them is awful, not making it optional is not helping them. It’s torturing them. They probably don’t enjoy lying and escaping. It’s just the better option. At least give them a bloody alternative so they don’t waste their time hiding in a toilet or whatever.

user1493222657 · 19/06/2021 19:13

Please campaign for girls' school uniforms to involve shorts rather than compulsory skirts to permit more ease of movement without issues surrounding the visibility of undergarments.

I second this. It is getting worse in some of the schools near me. Extremely short skirts and transparent tights in the public schools. Private school girls are not dressed like that.

Also agree regarding safeguarding and actively putting in measures to prevent sexual abuse.

As others have said, access to sport that is not football would be good. We have no provision for basketball, cricket, badminton, table tennis, volleyball or athletics for girls where we are.

Phineyj · 19/06/2021 20:06

I worked in a sixth form once that didn't have its own sports facilities so was limited in what it could offer. They also had a number of kids from religious families who didn't or couldn't participate. They had the option to do debating, bridge and a few other things. I'd have definitely taken debating over netball!

RhymesWithOrange · 04/07/2021 08:47

Has anyone shared today's Times article on male aggression and violence towards women in sport and physical activity settings? Would love to see some action on this.

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