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Guest post: "These are the lost children of Europe"

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MumsnetGuestPosts · 29/02/2016 13:28

At last count, 423 unaccompanied children were living in the Jungle camp in Calais.

I have spoken with a number of them on my trips in recent months. Many had reached the camp by themselves; they had been orphaned, separated en route, or sent away by their parents who had paid traffickers. Some I talked to were as young as ten.

These are some of the lost children of Europe; officially, they don't exist.
On Friday, the French government's plan to clear part of the Jungle was approved by the courts. While authorities say around 1000 people will be affected, aid agencies put the figure far higher.

Volunteers in the makeshift women and children's centre in the camp do their best to look after the unaccompanied minors, but there are no NGOs working with them. The UN High Commissioner for Refugees has not contacted the centre and neither have government officials.

Conditions in the camp are harsh. I cannot imagine my teen living there. It is cold and wet; the only thing keeping people fed and clothed adequately is the huge volunteer effort. I saw little children playing in waste pits contaminated with industrial waste and human excrement. Sickness spreads quickly through the camp - a measles outbreak was only just averted because Médecins Sans Frontières moved swiftly to run a vaccination programme.

There are frequently clashes between the CRS riot police and a small number of frustrated migrants. They throw stones; the CRS retaliate with tear gas and rubber bullets fired far into the camp. The tear gas floats amongst the family tents, choking the sleeping inhabitants at night. In the Calais Jungle, it seems that human rights do not apply. However, the camp does offer a degree of protection that will now disappear as a result of the eviction order issued to the southern half of the camp. The fear is that they will disperse into many smaller camps across northern France.

I thought Calais was terrible. Then I went to Dunkirk. The camp at Grand Synthe is a living hell. Around 2500 people live there, including many families with young children and small babies. No structures are allowed; tents and wooden pallets have to be snuck in. The mud is indescribable, thick and Somme-like. Inside the tents we saw children sleeping on pallets slowly sinking into the swamp.

In Dunkirk, I helped in a little school for the afternoon. It sees around 30-40 children each week. It consists of an army-type tent, open at the ends, and a floor made of pallets that float on top of the mud. Everything is covered with a layer of dirt. Paper gets damp too quickly and it is impossible to look after resources there, so the small number of amazing teachers who run it - I met British and French people - have to rely on their ingenuity and resilience. The children were wonderful; I was helping six year olds learn their numbers. In all of that mud, damp and cold, wrapped up in coats, chests rattling from infections, they still smiled and laughed and tried to teach me Kurdish.

There is some hope for the Dunkirk children. A new camp is being built by Médecins Sans Frontières. For those who are able to move to it, the conditions will be much better. The Brighton Build shelter project, Hummingbird project and Brighton Bridge are working together to create a new school and family centre in the camp, which you can support here.

This is the humanitarian side of this crisis, which must be acknowledged. I am not looking at politics, I am looking at people – and they need our help.

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OneWingWonder · 04/03/2016 16:55

alittlebit

"Afghans - all those I've spoken to have fled because of the Taliban

Sudanese - Every single one I've spoken to is from Darfur where all of course know there is an ongoing genocide. I also have to say that these are the kindest most gentle people I have ever met.

Kurdish Iraqis. - Many of these people fought on our side in the Iraq war. These people are absolutely not safe to remain in Iraq. In danger from both ISIS and the Taliban.

Syrians - These are increasing in number and I have no doubt that they will increase further as Spring arrives. There is obviously no disputing that these are refugees.

Then in much smaller number I have met:

Eritreans - they have had a brutal ongoing civil war.

Pakistanis - I was really puzzled as to why they are there, until I got talking to one recently. His brother had been killed by the Taliban - his parents sent him away to be safe, they have no intention of joining him as it seems that the young men are at most risk."

Your posts are informative, but I'm afraid your list exposes the fundamental flaw in your reasoning. What genuine refugee would flee a conflict by travelling 3000 miles as the crow flies to reach Calais and then refuse to claim asylum there? Why on earth should Britain accept their entitlement to enter our country and use our public services and welfare when the migrant has deliberately passed over a dozen safe countries? This is the definition of someone who may well have started as a refugee, but long before they reached Calais shifted priorities from safety to economics.

Understandable, but an absolute disqualification from being accepted by the UK as a refugee.

GreyAndGoldInTheMeadow · 04/03/2016 17:14

OneWing I don't seem to be able to see where the OP has said they should all be allowed to come to UK. She seems to only be describing what the situation has been when she's been trying to offer some aid as a volunteer (I can see where she says refugees are encouraged to apply for asylum in France Every volunteer I have met tries to persuade people to claim asylum in France - of course we do. )

It does seem that some on this thread think she is single handedly responsible for how to solve all this Confused

Calaisvolunteer · 04/03/2016 18:32

I have answered questions as best I can about the practical situation in Calais and Dunkirk. The purpose of my original post and my efforts in the camps is to make the situation as humane as possible while they are there.

When I am in the camps all I see are people who are in need at that precise moment, including many unaccompanied children. I see volunteers like me as first aiders, not there to judge a persons worth, or eligibility, by whatever criteria someone might like to impose, but to simply help as best we can with the immediate need.

unlucky83 · 05/03/2016 13:30

I am avoiding these threads at the moment as I am too angry - (I got a post deleted on another thread as being against the guide lines but I couldn't see how it was and no explanation has been forthcoming from MN. It does feel like an attempt to stifle discussion, censorship. I can't trust myself not to get banned completely at the moment.)

But I do really want to just thank alittlebit - their honest posts on this topic have been truly refreshing. I agree with grey she can't solve this as an individual , none of us could.
But answering questions, admitting to problems. An approach that can lead to open discussion and debate. Rather than the trend on these threads to go into complete denial of anything negative. Which just leads to confrontation.

I think Alittlebit is doing what they believe in, trying to do the right thing and don't have an agenda.
We do have a difference in opinion on the best course of action and we may never agree, but I respect their right to that opinion.

LeaveMyWingsBehindMe · 05/03/2016 15:38

good posts unlucky and I agree with you.

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