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Guest post: "These are the lost children of Europe"

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MumsnetGuestPosts · 29/02/2016 13:28

At last count, 423 unaccompanied children were living in the Jungle camp in Calais.

I have spoken with a number of them on my trips in recent months. Many had reached the camp by themselves; they had been orphaned, separated en route, or sent away by their parents who had paid traffickers. Some I talked to were as young as ten.

These are some of the lost children of Europe; officially, they don't exist.
On Friday, the French government's plan to clear part of the Jungle was approved by the courts. While authorities say around 1000 people will be affected, aid agencies put the figure far higher.

Volunteers in the makeshift women and children's centre in the camp do their best to look after the unaccompanied minors, but there are no NGOs working with them. The UN High Commissioner for Refugees has not contacted the centre and neither have government officials.

Conditions in the camp are harsh. I cannot imagine my teen living there. It is cold and wet; the only thing keeping people fed and clothed adequately is the huge volunteer effort. I saw little children playing in waste pits contaminated with industrial waste and human excrement. Sickness spreads quickly through the camp - a measles outbreak was only just averted because Médecins Sans Frontières moved swiftly to run a vaccination programme.

There are frequently clashes between the CRS riot police and a small number of frustrated migrants. They throw stones; the CRS retaliate with tear gas and rubber bullets fired far into the camp. The tear gas floats amongst the family tents, choking the sleeping inhabitants at night. In the Calais Jungle, it seems that human rights do not apply. However, the camp does offer a degree of protection that will now disappear as a result of the eviction order issued to the southern half of the camp. The fear is that they will disperse into many smaller camps across northern France.

I thought Calais was terrible. Then I went to Dunkirk. The camp at Grand Synthe is a living hell. Around 2500 people live there, including many families with young children and small babies. No structures are allowed; tents and wooden pallets have to be snuck in. The mud is indescribable, thick and Somme-like. Inside the tents we saw children sleeping on pallets slowly sinking into the swamp.

In Dunkirk, I helped in a little school for the afternoon. It sees around 30-40 children each week. It consists of an army-type tent, open at the ends, and a floor made of pallets that float on top of the mud. Everything is covered with a layer of dirt. Paper gets damp too quickly and it is impossible to look after resources there, so the small number of amazing teachers who run it - I met British and French people - have to rely on their ingenuity and resilience. The children were wonderful; I was helping six year olds learn their numbers. In all of that mud, damp and cold, wrapped up in coats, chests rattling from infections, they still smiled and laughed and tried to teach me Kurdish.

There is some hope for the Dunkirk children. A new camp is being built by Médecins Sans Frontières. For those who are able to move to it, the conditions will be much better. The Brighton Build shelter project, Hummingbird project and Brighton Bridge are working together to create a new school and family centre in the camp, which you can support here.

This is the humanitarian side of this crisis, which must be acknowledged. I am not looking at politics, I am looking at people – and they need our help.

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emilybohemia · 01/03/2016 14:39

What do you think will happen to these kids, alittle? A lot of refugee children have 'disappeeared'. I hope the children manage to stay in contact with those helping. Do you know where people are going that have been driven out?

It's a disgrace that the large organisations are not allowed to help.

Calaisvolunteer · 01/03/2016 14:45

UNICEF talk about the unaccompanied children.

Emily, I've only heard anecdotal stories some from direct contact with volunteers over their at the moment. Many families are probably going to end up trying to get into Dunkirk. You've seen what I've said about that camp.

Most I fear will try and create small encampments around Calais. This is what happened until the government gave them the land that became known as the Jungle a year ago. They will be so much more vulnerable to trafficking, to predators and will be away from any support that they have at present. It is going to become impossible to find them and they truely will be lost.

BrittEkland · 01/03/2016 14:45

exLt I can quite believe it! The powder-blue UN guys were hopeless - not their fault as such, but so much was outside of their purvue. They werent even allowed to shoot.

Not happy with the title of this thread - "These are the lost children of Europe" - because they clearly are not of Europe.

CoteDAzur · 01/03/2016 14:49

"why are the children being punished?"

French press reports that 80% of these "children" are teenagers between the ages of 15-18 who have made their own way across border crossings and dangerous international waters. They are not helpless bystanders who have suddenly found themselves in France without meaning to.

There are however a few children living there between the ages of 10-14. I'm not sure why they are not removed from there and taken under the protection of the state. There was talk in the press last week that these young ones should be sent to the UK to be united with the family members they are trying to find.

But apparently those family members are not legally in the UK, at least in some cases.

BrittEkland · 01/03/2016 14:51

So, the people may be off to Dunkirk. What, rather than stay in a container (if there's one free) or apply for asylum in France? What an extraordinary thing for a refugee to do. They were given that piece of land and they built on it, so now they are holding out for more now. This is just a battle of wills between the adults in the camp and govt to grant non-eligible people permission to live in UK.

They know if that happens, the precedent will be set and tens of thousands more economic migrants will do exactly the same.

BudsBeginingSpringinSight · 01/03/2016 14:53

In such a seemingly hopeless situation, these children are extremely vulnerable to abuse and exploitation from traffickers and smugglers. Very few of them are registered in the camps, and most are unaware of their basic rights and entitlements

The key sentence there - ^^ " Most are unaware of their basic rights and entitlements"

There is hope, however, and for some children with family members in the UK, there are existing EU rules that might allow them to safely and legally reunite with relatives in Britain. But these routes – through a combination of administrative barriers, low awareness and lack of trust in the system, and a lack of active implementation on the part of governments – are difficult for many and not always accessible to children

Again key sentence, " LOW AWARENESS AND A LACK OF TRUST IN THE SYSTEM".

www.theguardian.com/world/2016/feb/29/french-authorities-begin-clearance-of-part-of-calais-jungle-camp

Interesting article and most of the people in the southern camp are from Iran.

emilybohemia · 01/03/2016 14:55

That must have been hard ExL. How terrifying it must have been. I read this story the other day, of a child smuggled out of Bosnia during the war.

www.unhcr.org/4f8e7e759.html

'Living with such a past has, at times, set her apart from her peers. "It's really strange because people my age have no idea where Bosnia is, they don't know much about the war because they may have just been born when it happened . . . I see the same attitude towards refugees and asylum-seekers. I think sometimes people are too narrow-minded," she comments.

"You never get stories by refugees from their point of view and sometimes I feel they do get put down and criticized, which is not fair. Even people my age are very dismissive of refugees. I say, 'so do you dismiss me?,' and they say, 'no, but you're different.' I find it worrying that people are so ignorant."

BrittEkland · 01/03/2016 14:55

"apparently those family members are not legally in the UK"

Of course, Cote - there is a REASON why no one has applied to the Asylum Tribunal on behalf of the teenagers. Either family member in UK is not legal, or there is no family member there (except perhaps cousin's father's aunt by marriage).

BudsBeginingSpringinSight · 01/03/2016 14:59

www.womenundersiegeproject.org/blog/entry/when-those-meant-to-keep-the-peace-commit-sexualized-violence

In addition to supporting prostitution and raping women during wartime, UN peacekeepers have been accused of standing by when sexualized violence is used as a war tactic by combatants. In 2010, UN Assistant Secretary-General for Peacekeeping Atul Khare reported to the UN Security Council that UN Peacekeeping had “failed” to protect women and children from rapes in eastern DRC. Approximately 300 rapes had been reported in a village near the UN Peacekeeper’s camp in just a four-day period.

I am afraid the UN is not blemish free.

www.imdb.com/title/tt0896872/?ref_=nm_flmg_act_16

BudsBeginingSpringinSight · 01/03/2016 15:20

BTW

"More than 1,000 lone children sought asylum in the UK within a three month period, first time for seven years.

1080 claimed asylum most of them boys. 694 from Etria, 656 from Afghanistan and 456 from Albania.

Increasing numbers prompt fears about schooling, foster care, housing etc.

Estimates suggest the support amounts to £50,000 each year per child.

Kent children's services warned in December its services for child asylum seekers were at breaking point, they had 950 dc in their care."

^^ The times today.

emilybohemia · 01/03/2016 15:24

Couple in Calais peacefully protest from roof of shelter, beaten with batons by police, woman apparently pregnant.

www.facebook.com/HelpRefugeesUK/videos/198814763812538/?pnref=story

BrittEkland · 01/03/2016 15:29

"More than 1,000 lone children sought asylum in the UK within a three month period, first time for seven years."

Albania has no civil war, and should not be considered for refugee status. Their families are sending them on alone.

OneWingWonder · 01/03/2016 15:32

Sky News is interviewing an open borders activist who's demanding David Cameron let in all the Calais migrants, when suddenly a fire breaks out and the migrants start STONING both the activist and the cameraman!

www.youtube.com/watch?v=VVIfy_u8A2U

These must be the "peaceful protesters" we've heard so much about!

TresDesolee · 01/03/2016 16:37

Bloody hell LtEve Sad

It seems so odd that NGOs are not allowed in, at least to deal with the kids. The problem isn't exactly going away. (By 'problem' I don't mean the human beings, I mean the situation)

Quaintessential · 01/03/2016 16:41

Most I fear will try and create small encampments around Calais. This is what happened until the government gave them the land that became known as the Jungle a year ago. They will be so much more vulnerable to trafficking, to predators and will be away from any support that they have at present. It is going to become impossible to find them and they truely will be lost.

But why? Why are they still building camps. They are not getting in to the UK. That is not going to happen so why is no-one telling them that living in the UK is simply not an option. The French are offering them accommodation elsewhere and transport to get there, why are they not accepting this?

emilybohemia · 01/03/2016 16:46

Harry Leslie Smith, the 92 year old veteran, who visited the camp a few months back, will be on Jeremy Vine tomorrow and will be talking about the camp. It's something at least, he is very empathetic and has a good understanding of what refugees face because of his experiences due to WW2.

unlucky83 · 01/03/2016 16:55

From Emily's video lots of British voices shouting ....one man telling people to turn around and look at what they are doing to them etc etc ...
it is incitement - and why? for their own political ends...those people should be truly ashamed of themselves. I think the sooner the migrants are safe in containers and away from those No borders terrorists the better...

BrittEkland · 01/03/2016 17:09

In Greece, I saw a man standing on something high inciting the migrants to chant. He was conducting them with his arm.

emilybohemia · 01/03/2016 17:14

How is asking them to look and bear witness incitement, unlucky? Why are you still going about No Borders? The behaviour of the police would probably be worse if the witnesses weren't there. It is the police in the wrong here.

OneWingWonder · 01/03/2016 17:37

"It's something at least, he is very empathetic and has a good understanding of what refugees face because of his experiences due to WW2."

What, when the Germans gathered on the north coast of France preparing to invade us?

unlucky83 · 01/03/2016 17:38

emily I was going to reply but I can't really be arsed to point out the obvious - have a look at that video again - listen to what is being said ... screaming 'fuck you' etc ...why is he so upset? Because USING a pregnant woman to stop the demolition isn't working?

He doesn't need to encourage anyone to bear witness - believe me the press are there (as are the activists) trying to get news footage...I would love to see what was happening behind that camera...
(I recognised his voice - he's the guy from the start of 'the woman encouraging the 12 yr to risk his life' video isn't he - do you know who he is? Curious about his background...)

emilybohemia · 01/03/2016 17:52

Alittle, thanks for your response. It is very sad. It is mad what they have done as it has solved nothing. I am frightened for them. At least people like you are raising awareness. I know there are a lot of people that still want to help. It is so much harder now but the will is there. People like you have made a huge difference.

BrittEkland · 01/03/2016 17:57

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unlucky83 · 01/03/2016 18:20

Britt the guy shouting in the video sounds British -he is one of the activists (sorry volunteers - except I don't think he is a genuine volunteer...)

BrittEkland · 01/03/2016 18:35

Extract
"The German government has stated the reason why it has sent so many migrants to small towns, saying, “the rural regions are a laboratory of integration,” citing the lack of ability for ghettos to emerge in smaller towns unlike cities."

But hell for the original inhabitants