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MumsnetGuestPosts · 29/02/2016 13:28

At last count, 423 unaccompanied children were living in the Jungle camp in Calais.

I have spoken with a number of them on my trips in recent months. Many had reached the camp by themselves; they had been orphaned, separated en route, or sent away by their parents who had paid traffickers. Some I talked to were as young as ten.

These are some of the lost children of Europe; officially, they don't exist.
On Friday, the French government's plan to clear part of the Jungle was approved by the courts. While authorities say around 1000 people will be affected, aid agencies put the figure far higher.

Volunteers in the makeshift women and children's centre in the camp do their best to look after the unaccompanied minors, but there are no NGOs working with them. The UN High Commissioner for Refugees has not contacted the centre and neither have government officials.

Conditions in the camp are harsh. I cannot imagine my teen living there. It is cold and wet; the only thing keeping people fed and clothed adequately is the huge volunteer effort. I saw little children playing in waste pits contaminated with industrial waste and human excrement. Sickness spreads quickly through the camp - a measles outbreak was only just averted because Médecins Sans Frontières moved swiftly to run a vaccination programme.

There are frequently clashes between the CRS riot police and a small number of frustrated migrants. They throw stones; the CRS retaliate with tear gas and rubber bullets fired far into the camp. The tear gas floats amongst the family tents, choking the sleeping inhabitants at night. In the Calais Jungle, it seems that human rights do not apply. However, the camp does offer a degree of protection that will now disappear as a result of the eviction order issued to the southern half of the camp. The fear is that they will disperse into many smaller camps across northern France.

I thought Calais was terrible. Then I went to Dunkirk. The camp at Grand Synthe is a living hell. Around 2500 people live there, including many families with young children and small babies. No structures are allowed; tents and wooden pallets have to be snuck in. The mud is indescribable, thick and Somme-like. Inside the tents we saw children sleeping on pallets slowly sinking into the swamp.

In Dunkirk, I helped in a little school for the afternoon. It sees around 30-40 children each week. It consists of an army-type tent, open at the ends, and a floor made of pallets that float on top of the mud. Everything is covered with a layer of dirt. Paper gets damp too quickly and it is impossible to look after resources there, so the small number of amazing teachers who run it - I met British and French people - have to rely on their ingenuity and resilience. The children were wonderful; I was helping six year olds learn their numbers. In all of that mud, damp and cold, wrapped up in coats, chests rattling from infections, they still smiled and laughed and tried to teach me Kurdish.

There is some hope for the Dunkirk children. A new camp is being built by Médecins Sans Frontières. For those who are able to move to it, the conditions will be much better. The Brighton Build shelter project, Hummingbird project and Brighton Bridge are working together to create a new school and family centre in the camp, which you can support here.

This is the humanitarian side of this crisis, which must be acknowledged. I am not looking at politics, I am looking at people – and they need our help.

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TaraCarter · 02/03/2016 11:46

You'd have a case to say that if I had repeatedly attacked the legal professionals trying to assist the people for not making sure their clients didn't die of hypothermia. However, if you look up, you'll note I haven't said anything like that. I haven't said they didn't need both, but I rather feel that you are attacking the people for providing blankets and not being qualified immigration lawyers. "Playing schools"? FFS.

Right, do you have any idea how long asylum and citizenship applications take? It comes across to me that you don't. I know someone who has been trying to get a seemingly straight-forward one sorted out for years. Course, 'twould help with the forms if friend had had a rather less sporadic, uninterrupted education, but hey.

Yes, we all want our kids to be happy and this life-goal is significantly easier for them to achieve in 21st Western life if they can read, write and add up.

Once you have got your Indefinite Leave to Remain, you need to build a life. It is difficult to do that without those essential skills.

GreyAndGoldInTheMeadow · 02/03/2016 11:57

Unlucky just because someone is a volunteer doesn't mean they are not also a professional offering their expertise to those who currently have no access to school. To describe them as someone who hasn't grown out of playing schools is very insulting. The OP says they are teaching 6 year olds, how do you expect those children with no current access to school will grow into people who 'can look after themselves and earn enough money to live how they want to live and be happy' if they haven't even been given the basics like learning how to count? Ideally these children will very soon be in education wherever that may be, but in reality that could be a long time coming and in the meantime where else can they learn these things? It's really upsetting that people can be so dismissive of what others try to do to make things just a little bit better for those less fortunate.

kesstrel · 02/03/2016 12:00

According to the French sources I looked up last night, the refugee children's homes that the children are being asked to go to offer education as well as food and shelter...

kesstrel · 02/03/2016 12:02

(My previous post applies to the unaccompanied children, of course.)

TaraCarter · 02/03/2016 12:24

GreyandGold Even being able to read, write and count doesn't allow one to be able to "look after themselves and earn enough money to live how they want to live and be happy', as far as I can tell.

Potential employers wants GCSEs or equivalent and they're not interested in your personal life story or your assurances that you've learned to read and write!

unlucky83 · 02/03/2016 12:35

tara was that in the UK? I have some experience of that...I've said previously in the late 90s I knew a few people waiting for their (justified imo) asylum claims to be heard. And it did take years. They were working illegally using fake ID...supposedly being supported by a family member (who was actually a dodgy landlord who charged them inflated rent to say he was supporting them) however the alternative was to be in a detention centre. They didn't want to be there, would rather not be but it would have been better than living in a tent in Calais...and actually they probably would have been more of a priority to get their case heard...
The French are trying to bus people into centres around France ...and I read a link where some of the 'volunteers' (the ones with an agenda) had been discouraging them to get on the buses...as they are discouraging them from going into the containers.
Some of the unaccompanied 'children' don't want to stay in care homes they have been put in ...because they are too far from the tunnel.
Volunteers need to have a number one aim of encouraging them to seek asylum in France, stay in the homes - not as in the video I posted up thread packing a bag and giving money and advice to a 12yo on how to smuggle themselves into the UK...that's (dangerously) misguided.
grey I'm sure there are professionals who donate their time ...however can you really disagree that they would not be better in a professionally run school? The OP says how awful the conditions are - damp paper etc. With lessons targeted to their requirements they will make great progress and in some countries children don't start school until aged 7 anyway. And the non-professionals could do more harm than good (like parents who teach their children the alphabet before starting school but using the names - then when the children get to school and start to learn phonics they get confused)
And as Tara says if some of them are trafficked, child soldiers etc they need a lot more help than being taught how to count - they will need help from the psychological services too...

TaraCarter · 02/03/2016 12:38

Yep, in the UK. 21st century UK. He and I have done the thing where you google what is supposed to happen off the government website, as have social worker-type people.

Surprise surprise, it doesn't actually seem to be that simple in real life.

TaraCarter · 02/03/2016 12:45

Unlucky "Perfection is the enemy of good". We can't build a UK-worthy school, so let's not bother, eh?

You do realise the OP is not stopping the children from going to a nice mumsnet-approved leafy Indy in Surrey?

Circumstances are doing that. As it happens, there are concerned teachers fundraising? Perhaps you would like to assist them instead of attacking the OP?
www.childrenofcalais.org/#!projects/c21kz

GreyAndGoldInTheMeadow · 02/03/2016 12:56

unlucky Of course they'd be better in a professionally run school. But there isn't one for them right now, so what do you do? Just say fuck it, who cares? I'm sure they will need more psychological help, and I hope they can get it, but it doesn't mean the OP can't help with other things. The way you describe it is so dismissive, like they need so much more help than one person can give, so what's the point of giving anything at all.

Calaisvolunteer · 02/03/2016 13:21

Every volunteer I have met tries to persuade people to claim asylum in France - of course we do. We are there because we don't like seeing people suffering as they are. We point them in the direction of the legal centre, explain that the UK is not better than France. But we cannot force them, they are autonomous people with their own minds.

You are saying we should just walk into camps, tell them they need to move on and not offer any aid? I can imagine that would be so effective. In camps where there is very little aid, all that happens is people suffer more.

The people I have met running the school are professionals.

I do think that rather than getting angry at volunteers, perhaps some people should try going over and doing it their way. Have a go. See what happens. There is nothing to stop you.

In the mean time I will continue to work with professionals and aidworkers on the ground to do my very best to help to make their lives as humane as possible. I will do this despite the frequent nightmares I have about the children and the conditions they live and when I'm in the UK I will continue to try and raise awareness, so that someone - anyone will do something properly about this.

If you truly want to make a difference, while these children are there please do contribute to the new school approved by MSF and the Dunkirk council.

emilybohemia · 02/03/2016 13:26

Harry Leslie Smith will be on radio 2 Jeremy Vine show in a few mins, talking about his experiences in WW2 and refugees today. He saw a lot of refugees during WW2 and speaks regularly about how the hate directed at them today is similar to the hate directed at minorities during WW2. He will be talking about the refugee camp at Calais.

emilybohemia · 02/03/2016 14:18

Thanks for the link alittle. I will share it and donate. I am so sorry to hear about the effects on you of what you have seen. What a caring and AMAZING person you are, that you persevere despite this.

Harry Leslie Smith was just on Jeremy Vine highlighting how serious the neglect of refugees is and how to him it is worse than the situation he witnessed post ww2 as a soldier. He spoke about the children in Calais and how there is not enough support for them.

unlucky83 · 02/03/2016 14:26

Ok - I'll go off to help out in the camps ...
I'll help make little communities for them and feed and cloth and even house them - which won't in anyway encourage them to come or to stay will it? Or the 'children' to not stay in the French care system?
In fact I'll make it even more of a target for migrants ...and then I can go to sleep at night with a clear conscience telling myself what a great thing I am doing and what a caring human being I am....
(Whilst more people will die in the desert or at sea trying to get here ..and more money fed into the criminal underworld...)
On second thoughts - maybe it is better to let the French authorities deal with it - to let them dismantle the camps without protest, return the economic migrants to their country of origin so less are encouraged to come and encourage the Syrian refugees to stay in the nearby camps and to send money there were it can be used more effectively to make their lives better?

HelpfulChap · 02/03/2016 14:35

Are we still pretending the blog was written by a neutral or have we given up on that charade yet?

Reapwhatyousow · 02/03/2016 14:44

I've been watching this thread with interest.
unlucky83 - you have pretty much summarized how I feel.

To the rest - Real compassion is not always immediately recognizable and interference in the camps imo is just fuelling the misery.

WhoKnowsWhereTheTimeG0es · 02/03/2016 16:45

Clearly the aid being provided by the OP and others is making the camp inhabitants lives a tiny bit more bearable but it is not giving them a cushy existence by any stretch of the imagination. They are there because they are desperate to get to the UK, not because of the handouts in the camp. The OP and others like her are simply acting out of compassion for people finding themselves in a horrific situation.

CuttedUpPear · 02/03/2016 20:12

Right now volunteers in the container camp are handing out bottled water to residents in the containers. The containers that the authorities want people to move into are not even supplied with a source of water.

France is massively failing its own human rights charter.

Harry Leslie Smith at 1hr 30

SpringingIntoAction · 02/03/2016 21:28

It's time that the Calais camp was totally dismantled and the migrants were resettled in France or returned to their home countries.

The only reason that this illegal camp is located next to a ferry port/Chunnel entrance is to allow migrants a chance at smuggling themselves into the UK illegally.

All children should be removed from this disgusting, squalid, insanitary and violent place and placed in the care of French social services.

Pictures of migrants knifing each other as shown in today's newspapers make me even more determined that they fail in their attempts to come to the UK

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3473141/Knife-fight-Jungle-Terrifying-moment-migrant-flees-blade-wielding-attacker-Calais-governor-reveals-British-anarchists-fuelling-violence-camp.html

nevertakeyouriphoneinthebath · 03/03/2016 03:26

OK I will try for the third time. Does anyone know why the unaccompanied children in the camps have not been removed by French Social Services?

I can't imagine it's that much different in France to in the UK - any unaccompanied minor would not be left to fester in a muddy rubbish dump. They would become 'looked after' until their family could be traced and/or alternative arrangements made.

nevertakeyouriphoneinthebath · 03/03/2016 04:06

apologies, that last post was meant to be on a different thread and was directed towards EmilyBohemia but if anyone knows the answer please feel free to tell me. Smile

unlucky83 · 03/03/2016 08:20

cutted did the tents/shelters have a running water supply to them?
They are using the same facilities as they were before....
Glad it sounds like they are moving into the containers though ... taking a first step to improving their future.

Calaisvolunteer · 03/03/2016 09:53

I don't know nevertake, all I know is that my original piece would have been a lot shorter had French social workers taken these children into care. I do not understand why this has not happened.

As reported before and backed up factually in the court case last week, they had already been moving into the containers and out of 1500 places originally, by the court case there were only 300 places left. It is estimated, though I don't have an official source, that there are now around 130 places left.

CoteDAzur · 03/03/2016 10:41

"Comme les autres mineurs isolés de la jungle, Karim et son frère refusent toutefois de rejoindre la Maison du jeune réfugié, gérée par l'association France terre d'asile, à Saint-Omer (Pas-de-Calais). "C'est à 40 minutes d'ici, c'est trop loin, peste le jeune homme. Et puis je ne connais personne là-bas. Ici, j'ai rencontré d'autres jeunes qui viennent de mon village. Maintenant on vit tous les cinq ensemble dans une tente, avec mon frère."

Face au refus catégorique de ces jeunes, l'association France terre d'asile est impuissante. Tout comme le sont les autorités, en charge d'autres hébergements pour les mineurs. "Nous offrons un accueil sans conditions : nous ne pouvons ni forcer ces mineurs à venir, ni les forcer à rester, explique le responsable de la Maison du jeune réfugié, Jean-François Roger. Une maraude sociale intervient dans le camp tous les jours, pour essayer de les convaincre et de les informer de leurs droits, mais c'est un travail de longue haleine."

From here.

Basically, help is available but they can't force these teenagers to go to there if they don't want to.

TaraCarter · 03/03/2016 11:01

Some other posts in this thread about the children (not the one above- that just sounds like a kid who can't cope with more upheaval) give me a sense that approaches to the children have been royally incompetent.

I was a very naive 12 year old, and I can imagine I would have been very hesitant to just get on a bus collecting teens, however peaceful my experiences en route to the camp. It would have sounded like a good way to "disappear". If the people in charge of the bus tried to take pieces of paper with contact numbers from me, I would definitely have run like hell.

These kids have got across Europe- they are probably not naive about humanity, are they?

unlucky83 · 03/03/2016 11:49

tara maybe they are afraid because they have been encouraged to be afraid ...by (hopefully just) No Borders supporters...
I was thinking of the BBC story about the containers and the man who said it was like a prison etc. Something didn't sit right about the language he used (and I have had dealing with lots of people whose first language isn't English) ...now wondering if he was repeating what he had been told...to be afraid of them.
Also the protesters yesterday with the hand written signs - the ones I saw were all in the same handwriting, with correct spelling and grammar...they are not their signs, they are not their words...