Phantom - I agree absolutely about the 'walk in my shoes' thing.
I think there are some oddities about how G&T is dealt with in schools - especially that the standards are relative rather than absolute - but I believe that schools do need to make appropriate provision for particularly able children and I would never scoff at those children (especially as we have some in the family). The attitudes of some parents of some G&T childen, however, do invite a certain amount of leg-pulling.