The Shiney Girls have been at it.....

[bellavita]

again

Bring on the Pornstars!!

Lots of cock and cake healthy eating and plenty of chat here....

Double - 'It does get harder as you get older as everyone has more to lose maybe.'

And often, more to gain. Compare yourself now with yourself at 18-20 say. For me I wasn't ready for love, to committ to just one person, to be secure and steady or to grow up.

I was a complete nutter then. No savings, no security in my life, no life expereince of any value.

Freinds came and went as did men.

At 35 I see things a whole lot differently. I value more. I'm independant even though I'm married. I have control of my life and I have an idea of where I want my life to go and end up. To a certain degree, I'm heading in the right direction although DS's additional requirements were unexpected, I just get on with it.

I am a nicer person. I understand more, I have learnt so much in the last 10/15 years. Life lessons I hope to pass onto DD and DS.

I am less selfish (except for all this 'I' ing ) in this post.

Which means I have more of me to give.

Sermon over....... as you were!

Ah SAF!! Sorry! Tis true though, you are loved. x

Off to physio now

Back later xx

morning you bunch of beauties.

did a quick skim so apoligies if i have missed anyting vital.

SAF & Double - you are both lovely lovelies and of course you will find love. it may not be where you expect to find it but you will.

I was convinced i wold be a fat old spinster forever and ever.

Im not rather happy with Dp. he is the absolute opposite of everytihg i thought i wanted and we make the most ridiculous looking couple (if you don't believe me ask BoF or Reality) but he makes me happy.

What more can you ask for.

I have gotten quite selfish in my old age. i now live by the motto, if its not making me happy then why keep doing it.

sadly i have been told im not allowed to apply this to the housework though

Saf, that sounds fab,, I did just text you but garden sounds good.

just noticed that my post says im not rather happy...that should have course been i am NOW rather happy.

d'oh!

reading in the sun sounds lovely.

men are trouble imo. that is all really i have to say on the subject. expecially after recent events. shiney you were right, you were a bit too bloody right tbh. But 20 20 hindsight was needed to understand that. For those not understanding I am afraid i shall not be divulging anymore. those that know will understand those that dont will have to except I cba to type circa 20 pages of back history.

But needless to say today is not a good day and i am contimplating making lunch and going back to bed for an hour.

Oh DEM, hope you're OK

I am like Gigi in that I thought I'd forever be stuck with loser men (mainly welsh, sorry DIB ) who just wanted sex. Then I met DH and it was just right.

SAF and Double, you are both beautiful, intelligent and lovely. You just haven't found the right man who is worthy of you.

They'll be out there and I think they'll be hung

I think it is mostly burn out tbh so taking it easy today. must finish the jam later but will rest for now. Eating lunch will help.

skipped the to do list this morning to have a lovely chat with a friend. But unfortunately my concious was allightened to something my sub consious already knew but didnt really want to admit. its not helping the tired feeling so i will rest until school run. am lucky that i have this as an option.

How are you doing today lizzy? still all swishy and braving the skirt or are you being more practical and in trousers?

Hey

DEM - hope you are ok.

Sorry have been a bit quiet. Mostly knackered really, and one of the ladies from my antenatal thread has just found out her baby has died which has shaken me up quite a bit (nothing to what she must be feeling ) she was a couple of days ahead of me.

Having to take things easy again as the contractions have started again.

Hope everyone is well, hopefully will be back into the swing of the thread in a couple of days

Oh Alice. How truly awful.

Please don't let this whirl around in your head. No 'what if that happens to us' okay?

Promise me!! I know it's natural to feel that way, especially as you know this lady but positive thoughts only please!!!!

Rest too please.

Afternoon. Sorry about your worries Alice, it's a shock and seeing as you are so nice you will be feeling for her. Still statistically very rare you know. (which doesn't help if it's you I know.
Here's a story to cheer up anyone feeling unattractive: I'm sitting waiting with DS for a bus, we've got the dentist out of the way, sun is shining and I think I'm looking OK - hair and make-up done for instance. An elderly guy is chatting to DS and then leans over to me and asks me if I am his grandma.
I know I'm nudging big 4-0, but wouldn't your first assumption seeing middle-aged woman with toddler be that she was its mum, not gran?
God I must look haggard.

DIB, I love that you can't put up with a diet book that has spelling mistakes!
I had a hard time with a new exercise dvd on account of the presenter's annoyingly chirpy voice and griny face. Soldiered on though.
And have listened to Paul McKenna, so all in all successful so far today.

Iggi depends what area you are in really. My mum was a Gran at 35, i know people who were grandparents even younger. Perhaps you looked too glamourous to be a full time mum? either that or the old man has really poor eyesight.

Thanks for being kind. It just comes as a bit of a shock really. She seems such a lovely girl, so bubbly and excited about her little girl. The thread was bad at the start, lots of people had m/c's which was really sad, but you get to the last trimester and feel kind of lulled into a false sense of security. I will not complain about an over active baby again

Afternoon ladies.

Yay for vest tops Hells, but I cannot believe you ever had sausages for arms, you are so willowy and graceful

Alice, how awful , please try not to dwell on it.

Lizzy, how is it going with the Dukan diet?

Trills can you tell your dp I am a leeeetle in love with him

Double, it is nice when someone pays you a compliment, lifts your spirits.

Have those builders fecked off again Mouse?

We are having fish and chips for tea