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transplant call at 3am

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misdee · 19/05/2005 07:33

well that was a wake up call!!

peter is at harefield now, again i am sitting here waiting to find out if its gonna happen this time (3rd time lucky??)

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noddyholder · 19/05/2005 08:58

I can't believe this has happened again You must be so stressed and disappointed Hopefully it win't be too long intil you get the call that will end all this xx

Toothache · 19/05/2005 09:01

Oh Misdee, I'm so sorry you are all going through this. Wishing you and your DH some good luck really really soon!

Makes me glad I'm registered as a donor, it's situations like this that show the reality of how much of a difference it can make.

I hope loads more MN'ers will register as organ donors (if you haven't already).

swedishmum · 19/05/2005 09:01

So sorry. I can't begin to imagine how hard this is for you all.

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misdee · 19/05/2005 09:34

still cant believe it hasnt happened again.part of me thinks it'll never happen.

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misdee · 19/05/2005 09:55

i'm shattered.

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Titania · 19/05/2005 09:56

im sorry. sorry if i upset you. x x

RTKangaMummy · 19/05/2005 09:58

Oh Misdee

I don't really know what to say

But wanted you to know that am thinking about you all. And am sending you some cyberhugs {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}}}}}

SaintGeorge · 19/05/2005 09:58

Ah hell misdee, just seen this. So sorry you keep having to ride this stupid rollercoaster of emotion. Keep faith hun - it WILL happen!

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misdee · 19/05/2005 09:58

tbh T, just leave it. i am tired, emotional wreak and dont need to scroll down half a page to find threads i want to read. i dont block chat as otherwise i miss some lighthearted threads.

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PuffTheMagicDragon · 19/05/2005 09:59

Misdee, I'm so sorry - it must be v hard to have your hopes lifted and dashed like this repeatedly.

Your courage and strength in the midst of all this is very humbling.

Here's hoping the next call brings a real match.

tiredemma · 19/05/2005 10:00

sorry to hear this misdee, thinking of you xx

coppertop · 19/05/2005 10:01

I'm so sorry you're on this rollercoaster, misdee.

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misdee · 19/05/2005 10:01

it was a match. just the heart was in poor condition.

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Titania · 19/05/2005 10:02

ok sorry, thought i was being light hearted for a change.

take care. thinking of you x x

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misdee · 19/05/2005 10:05

maybe lightheartened for you, but for me it was very annoying.

if u want to know how many characters in a thread title u can have just type one in and count it, but not post it.

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deegward · 19/05/2005 10:07

I have followed your threads, but haven't posted until now. Good luck, hope it goes ahead this time

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misdee · 19/05/2005 10:08

deegward, it hasnt happened again.

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deegward · 19/05/2005 10:09

sorry that will teach me not to read the rest of the thread

PuffTheMagicDragon · 19/05/2005 10:18

even more frustrating that it matched, but still wasn't suitable.

pixiefish · 19/05/2005 10:26

hope you're both ok misdee- the stress must be so... god i don't know what to say- hugs to you both

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misdee · 19/05/2005 10:32

was really hoping this would be it, and our lives could start again. we could be starting to plan things again, and not live day by day.

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Fio2 · 19/05/2005 10:32

well we want him to have a GOOD heart misdee not a rubbish one, try to keep optomistic xxx

PuffTheMagicDragon · 19/05/2005 10:33

misdee, whay was the heart in poor condition - was it due to it's age, or is the criteria applied v strict and therefore a heart has to be 100% perfect?

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misdee · 19/05/2005 10:33

its gotta be top notch.

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PuffTheMagicDragon · 19/05/2005 10:34

As it should be I suppose.