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Red spot on back persistant scab please help

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Beya4567 · 14/06/2026 09:40

I noticed yesturday that i have a small scab on my back lower down towards bottom of spine i picked it and now it's red and sore however I now remember picking the same spot months back...and freaking out its a bcc or skin cancer.....I defiantly picked the same area atleast 6 months back..I'm dead and the cancer has spread everywhere I no it has

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Beya4567 · 18/06/2026 18:56

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 18/06/2026 18:52

Take a photo of it today,take another in 2 weeks time then go back to the GP and ask to be referred to the dermatologist. Anything non healing needs to be checked out.

Well she seems to think it's fine...she looked at it and went that's absolutely nothing...I said its been there and forming a scab every time and she said she's been doing this fot 25 years it's a pimple and nothing

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Tiddlywinks63 · 18/06/2026 18:57

Beya4567 · 18/06/2026 18:16

I dont keep picking it 👌👌ffs if u read my full post u will see i noticed that it's the same scab from months ago that hasn't gone

I noticed yesturday that i have a small scab on my back lower down towards bottom of spine i picked it….. from your opening post OP.

Beya4567 · 18/06/2026 19:16

Tiddlywinks63 · 18/06/2026 18:57

I noticed yesturday that i have a small scab on my back lower down towards bottom of spine i picked it….. from your opening post OP.

Yes and it u continue to read it..it says when I picked it. I THEN noticed i had picked the exact same spot months ago..meaning it's just scabbing and reforming and the scab isn't going away

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Beya4567 · 18/06/2026 19:52

It's probably bout the size of the tip of a pen it is tiny 🤷‍♀️

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PurpleLovecats · 18/06/2026 20:24

Beya4567 · 18/06/2026 19:52

It's probably bout the size of the tip of a pen it is tiny 🤷‍♀️

You’re probably scratching it when asleep. I’ve got multiple spots all over my body (I itch constantly, MH issue) and I pick at them. Some have been there for months now. Sometimes I realise I must have scratched one in the night as there will be blood on the sheets.

Happytap · 18/06/2026 20:32

I really think the big issue here is your anxiety. I've had multiple health scares this year requiring investigation and have been terrified each time, but all have come back normal. It sparked some major health anxiety for me which I'm having therapy for and taking medication and it's helping. Id suggest you speak to your GP about that.

The thing on your back looks to me, and your GP, like a pimple. If it's still there in a month I'd go back - but try and leave it alone for that month.

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 18/06/2026 23:46

Beya4567 · 18/06/2026 18:56

Well she seems to think it's fine...she looked at it and went that's absolutely nothing...I said its been there and forming a scab every time and she said she's been doing this fot 25 years it's a pimple and nothing

Go back if it doesn't heal, I'm not going to go I to specifics as it'll make you more anxious but of it doesn't heal you go back and ask to be referred.

BatFinkk · 18/06/2026 23:59

You post constantly about various ailments. You should probably have your internet access removed at this point tbh. It does you no good at all.

There’s nothing wrong with you physically. You need to focus on the actual problem which is overwhelming health anxiety.

we will see you back in a few months with something else.

Beya4567 · 19/06/2026 07:46

BatFinkk · 18/06/2026 23:59

You post constantly about various ailments. You should probably have your internet access removed at this point tbh. It does you no good at all.

There’s nothing wrong with you physically. You need to focus on the actual problem which is overwhelming health anxiety.

we will see you back in a few months with something else.

The spot dosnt exist no. Oh sorry

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Beya4567 · 19/06/2026 08:00

Happytap · 18/06/2026 20:32

I really think the big issue here is your anxiety. I've had multiple health scares this year requiring investigation and have been terrified each time, but all have come back normal. It sparked some major health anxiety for me which I'm having therapy for and taking medication and it's helping. Id suggest you speak to your GP about that.

The thing on your back looks to me, and your GP, like a pimple. If it's still there in a month I'd go back - but try and leave it alone for that month.

That's my point it's been there for over a year as a scab....when I picked it the other day I thought to myself ive picked that before in the same place..meaning it hasn't gone away

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Beya4567 · 19/06/2026 10:09

Batsratscatsgnats · 14/06/2026 20:02

My son had something that looked similar. Hes 11. We went to the Dr's to get ut checked - i actually wasnt worried its just that the NHS website says to get a spot that hasn't cleared up in 3 weeks checked - it was there MUCH longer. The dr looked said 'dont worry its a cyst' I was like ok fine. Went home, forgot about it. Got a call back from the doctor at 7pm that night who said actually ive re-thought and im going to refer you to dermatology just to be sure. I freaked out. But a few days later it came to a sort of head and all this gross stuff came out like toothpaste. It was a cyst. Nothing scary at all. We've had the referral come through and if its come back - which it might if its a cyst I MIGHT still take him along. Or I might cancel a week or so before. Not sure. Point is even when it looks dodgy enough for a GP to be concerned it probably isn't anything bad

Did your sons scab over aswell

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BatFinkk · 19/06/2026 15:05

You’re unable to think straight. At this point genuinely, MN should restrict your posting abiiity because you’ve been posting ailments for years

I’m sure you have got a spot. I’m sure it has come back. I’m sure it’ll probably come back again

Do I think you’re going to keel over and die?

unlikely.

Shavetheconcorde · 19/06/2026 15:08

BatFinkk · 19/06/2026 15:05

You’re unable to think straight. At this point genuinely, MN should restrict your posting abiiity because you’ve been posting ailments for years

I’m sure you have got a spot. I’m sure it has come back. I’m sure it’ll probably come back again

Do I think you’re going to keel over and die?

unlikely.

I agree. You are wasting your life worrying that you are going to die OP. Please seek help for your health anxiety rather all these imaginary illnesses

Happytap · 19/06/2026 19:01

You've been seen by a GP and told it's fine. You have a safety net of going back in a month if you feel you need to. All you need to do now is relax and get on with life. Don't waste your time with your kids worrying about an imaginary illness

Beya4567 · 23/06/2026 08:06

I went back and saw another gp she looked at it and took a pic and said it looks like an infected follicle as it had like a little dot on it ..she wasnt concerned at all 🤦‍♀️..I just don't get why it hasn't gone away for like a year...and as for my arm she said its prob muscular but that's still not great

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PurpleLovecats · 23/06/2026 09:13

Beya4567 · 23/06/2026 08:06

I went back and saw another gp she looked at it and took a pic and said it looks like an infected follicle as it had like a little dot on it ..she wasnt concerned at all 🤦‍♀️..I just don't get why it hasn't gone away for like a year...and as for my arm she said its prob muscular but that's still not great

That’s good. You’ve had two opinions now so you now need to try to put it out of your mind.

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 23/06/2026 09:23

What did she suggest to do for the I texted follicle?

Beya4567 · 23/06/2026 09:47

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 23/06/2026 09:23

What did she suggest to do for the I texted follicle?

Didn't suggest anything just coz of where it is it will prob Flair up and all the time ..didn't say anything just leave it alone...not normal to me tho sorry

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MrsCarmelaSoprano · 23/06/2026 09:58

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 23/06/2026 09:23

What did she suggest to do for the I texted follicle?

Sorry. Auro correct at it's finest!

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 23/06/2026 10:00

I was told to use Eumovate for a couple of weeks by the dermatologist when I had something similar. Try it and see if it works then go back again. GPs will usually want you to try and couple of things before referring.

Beya4567 · 23/06/2026 10:00

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 23/06/2026 09:58

Sorry. Auro correct at it's finest!

I'm not really happy just to except it tho I dunno

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Beya4567 · 23/06/2026 10:25

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 23/06/2026 10:00

I was told to use Eumovate for a couple of weeks by the dermatologist when I had something similar. Try it and see if it works then go back again. GPs will usually want you to try and couple of things before referring.

Why you're was cancer was it

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Beya4567 · 23/06/2026 10:26

MrsCarmelaSoprano · 23/06/2026 10:00

I was told to use Eumovate for a couple of weeks by the dermatologist when I had something similar. Try it and see if it works then go back again. GPs will usually want you to try and couple of things before referring.

She didn't mention reffering to me or give me cream said it was so tiny and nothing

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MrsCarmelaSoprano · 23/06/2026 10:33

Beya4567 · 23/06/2026 10:25

Why you're was cancer was it

I am checked regularly for skin cancer as I've had a few. Some bumps aren't and was told to use Eumovate .

MozzarElla84 · 23/06/2026 10:33

Beya4567 · 23/06/2026 10:00

I'm not really happy just to except it tho I dunno

When will you be happy though, OP? What will the multiple trained healthcare professionals and the many people who commented on your posts have to say to you to to feel safe in your body? I don't think anyone can ever help you if you don't start to help yourself first. At this rate, if heaven forbid you'd ever get a real cancer diagnosis you'll likely die from a stress induced heart attack before treatment for cancer can even start... And I can guarantee you 100% your children already feel you not being present with them when you are constantly in your head. I understand the worry you have about not being there for them in the future, but what about being there now..

Sorry if this sounds insensitive but honestly it sounds like you are in constant stress at the moment. If you are going to Google cancer symptoms why not Google the effects of high stress overloading your body?

I am saying all this as someone with health anxiety and lots of medical trauma, life threatening situations and human mistakes made by medical personnel concerning myself and my children. There are no certainties. Healthcare professionals can sometimes get it wrong. The body does strange things. Untreated stress affects lifespan.

Please Please get some help for this OP, this is no way to live

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