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MNers who Self Harm - Please can you stop in here for a min

91 replies

Flame · 15/05/2008 07:58

I have a friend who could use some support, and I think it would be best from people who have been there/are in the same emotional place as her.

I will send her the link to this thread now, and hopefully she will come by later.

It will be hard for her to talk, but I am hoping you will all snuggle her in your norks

OP posts:
needsupport · 15/05/2008 14:03

im near bradford

mellyonion · 15/05/2008 14:05

ok....give me a few minutes....

needsupport · 15/05/2008 14:10

ill check back later on.i need to sort my baby out.thankyou.

mellyonion · 15/05/2008 14:18

www.users.zetnet.co.uk/BCSW/helpline.htm

i found this...i can't find the project i was after...

a few more support groups

i really hope you are ok....you sound so sad...

Original poster
Flame · 15/05/2008 15:42

thank you everyone

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Hobo · 15/05/2008 17:15

Feel a bit helpless, flame!
Wish ns were just around the corner in rl, then i could say more...iykwim

great links on here

DisplacementActivity · 15/05/2008 18:10

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smurfgirl · 15/05/2008 19:38

I self harm (although am being good at the moment). I find writing a diary very very helpful, it has given me mega insight into things.

I think for me focusing on the self harm (where, how deep, what with etc) is sometimes a distraction from why I am doing it, and the feelings I get from it so I try not to obsess to much.

needsupport · 15/05/2008 20:37

thankyou everyone.im not to good tonight so am just wanting some spasce.x

DisplacementActivity · 15/05/2008 20:56

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needsupport · 15/05/2008 21:43

ok have ha d space.now want to takl plesae.

needsupport · 15/05/2008 21:52

anynoe

Beauregard · 15/05/2008 21:53

bumping this for you
xx

Psychomum5 · 15/05/2008 21:54

leaving a hug, altho can't advise much...I am sorry.

Hobo · 15/05/2008 21:55

I have to go very soon ns, but i am here now.
You ok?

needsupport · 15/05/2008 21:58

im trynig to be but no

smurfgirl · 15/05/2008 21:59

What do you want to talk about in relation to self harm?

needsupport · 15/05/2008 22:02

i hnoestly dont nknow

Hobo · 15/05/2008 22:04

You do sound so sad, ns,please make a gp appt in the morning,do you have a good female gp?

Hobo · 15/05/2008 22:06

There are obviously issues that you are dealing with, it IS so hard with a baby too.
You sound like you need some real TLC

Hobo · 15/05/2008 22:08

When i had counselling, ns, things got much harder before they got better.

They did get better though.

needsupport · 15/05/2008 22:08

yes i do.im justlow thats al.

Hobo · 15/05/2008 22:10

You are having a bad time, do you think that the gp can give you something to get you through this 'bad moment'?

You can get through it, belive me.

DisplacementActivity · 15/05/2008 22:10

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