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GP thinks I’m crazy!

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BexAubs20 · 28/03/2025 09:10

Ok so I’ve been having symptoms for years now and been tested for all kinds of things via bloods, stool and urine samples. The only thing that came back positive was low vitD which I’ve been taking daily for months and still don’t feel any better. I’ve got a tugging type sensation in my lower tummy either side of my hips as well as the following symptoms; Headache
Nausea
Severe back/ hip pain
Rash on face & under breast & chest & arm, back of knees on hips and eyes
Bowl issues
Dry sore bloodshot eyes with rash on eyelids
Phlegm
Depression
Anxiety
Fast/ irregular heartbeat
heavy, irregular periods 2 x per month
Pain under right side ribs
Heavy legs
Mouth ulcers
Bruise easily
Dry nose with scabs
Dry sore lips
Random body twitches
Toenails peeling off
Brittle fingernails
Dry hair
Twitch under right eye
Acotites- swollen tummy
Fatigue
Aching joints
I’m at my whits end! The fatigue is the worst. I’ve had to give up work. I wake up exhausted and I’m struggling to carry out daily tasks. Even climbing the stairs hurts! I’ve asked for a gyno referral but apart from that I think they have ruled out everything else. I’m 37 so poss peri menapause but the test they did came back negative for that too! Does anyone else have these symptoms and what was your diagnosis? Thanks

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BexAubs20 · 28/03/2025 10:11

Shmoigel · 28/03/2025 10:09

Have they looked at the possibility of endometriosis. I get all those symptoms.

I have asked today about this I want a scan to check

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ItGhoul · 28/03/2025 10:12

BexAubs20 · 28/03/2025 09:17

That’s what I’m thinking. I mentioned this to the doctor last time and he said “yes all your symptoms could be explained by fibromyalgia and the fact we have ruled most things out would indicate this, but most symptoms could also be explained by low vitD” it was borderline anyway not even low but he wanted me to wait 6-8wks of taking the vit D before giving a diagnosis. He also said “you won’t gain anything from a diagnosis of fibromyalgia as there is no treatment”

That seems very reasonable on your GP's part.

Fruitytutti223 · 28/03/2025 10:12

Oh you have had children! You didn’t have a C-section did you?

333FionaG · 28/03/2025 10:13

YesImawitch · 28/03/2025 09:19

Acotites- swollen tumm
Do you mean ascites?
Have you been diagnosed with this?
It's an incredibly serious condition and needs urgent treatment

That’s what I was thinking. It’s often a sign of severe liver impairment and not to be ignored.

CheekySnake · 28/03/2025 10:15

What are your periods like @BexAubs20 and how long have they been difficult for?

Horrendous periods + bowel symptoms + nausea + swelling +heavy legs/hip and back pain/fatigue are all symptoms of endometriosis. Anxiety really common in women who have it too.

Shmoigel · 28/03/2025 10:15

BexAubs20 · 28/03/2025 10:11

I have asked today about this I want a scan to check

You will need to be very persistent as it takes a lot of effort to diagnose it, which is shocking seeing as 1:10 women have it!

I was 40 by the time I wad diagnosed.

godlikeAI · 28/03/2025 10:15

Omega 3 deficiency?

www.vivolife.co.uk/blogs/news/10-signs-of-an-omega-3-deficiency

Aquariusmumma · 28/03/2025 10:16

It might be worth looking into private full thyroid testing - they test more than TSH. TSH can appear normal, yet the full testing show thyroid issues.

catsarecuteandcool · 28/03/2025 10:17

BexAubs20 · 28/03/2025 10:10

Yes. I just think most of the world has children and jobs and they manage to walk up the stairs without pain you know?

This seems a bit like you're not prepared to accept stress is a valid reason to experience awful medical symptoms (clue: it IS).

As a single working parent without any support and running my own business, I experienced very similar unexplained medical issues, went through all the tests to no avail. It was only when I took a holiday it receded a bit and I found a way to manage it.

There's a potential solution to try being offered, is it not worth a try?

You seem set on ignoring the impact of the stress and trying to find another medical reason, is stress not a good enough one for you? Maybe open up your understanding of the human body.

There's a good book: When the body says no, by Gabor Mate. It might help you understand the implication of stress on the body.

I'm not saying that in your case it is 100% the cause for sure, but I think without focussing on it as a prime potential reason, you are missing a big part of the equation and potential solutions.

BexAubs20 · 28/03/2025 10:18

Fruitytutti223 · 28/03/2025 10:12

Oh you have had children! You didn’t have a C-section did you?

Yes my last baby was a C section 3yrs ago I’ve not been right since

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Chipsahoy · 28/03/2025 10:18

Sounds like inflammation. So autoimmune or perhaps an allergy? Histamine allergy?

mrsmiggins78 · 28/03/2025 10:18

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CheekySnake · 28/03/2025 10:18

BexAubs20 · 28/03/2025 10:11

I have asked today about this I want a scan to check

FWIW you should be aware that endo isn't always visible on ultrasound unless the nodules are large AND the person doing the scan knows how to spot it, which most of them don't. Many gp's are not aware that a 'normal' ultrasound doesn't rule it out.

Sometimes the ca-125 blood test will show inflammation due to endo

Deep pelvic endo does show on MRI but I'm not sure how easy it is to access on the NHS .

Contkabia · 28/03/2025 10:19

I have a lot of these symptoms with endometriosis and allergies. Not coeliac but sensitive to gluten, dairy, nuts, fragrance etc. when I say sensitive I mean severe reactions for days/weeks but not yet anaphylaxis.

BexAubs20 · 28/03/2025 10:19

catsarecuteandcool · 28/03/2025 10:17

This seems a bit like you're not prepared to accept stress is a valid reason to experience awful medical symptoms (clue: it IS).

As a single working parent without any support and running my own business, I experienced very similar unexplained medical issues, went through all the tests to no avail. It was only when I took a holiday it receded a bit and I found a way to manage it.

There's a potential solution to try being offered, is it not worth a try?

You seem set on ignoring the impact of the stress and trying to find another medical reason, is stress not a good enough one for you? Maybe open up your understanding of the human body.

There's a good book: When the body says no, by Gabor Mate. It might help you understand the implication of stress on the body.

I'm not saying that in your case it is 100% the cause for sure, but I think without focussing on it as a prime potential reason, you are missing a big part of the equation and potential solutions.

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Sorry that’s not what I was saying at all. I think you’re totally correct but then I say to myself come on everyone else manages. I’ve been off work since Jan and still don’t feel any better though

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Areyouserioushuh · 28/03/2025 10:21

I have alot of the same symptoms minus mouth ulcers amd a scabby nose.
i have endometriosis and a family history of IBD colitis/crohns, crohns can actually cause mouth ulcers as its to do with the digestive tract. I also belive i have a weakened immune system.

prehaps its something in your diet that needs cutting ie dairy or red meat/processed foods. It could also be genetics and age also playing a part.

take a multi vitamin.
folic acid for folate also.

also do you smoke or vape??!

catsarecuteandcool · 28/03/2025 10:21

BexAubs20 · 28/03/2025 10:19

Sorry that’s not what I was saying at all. I think you’re totally correct but then I say to myself come on everyone else manages. I’ve been off work since Jan and still don’t feel any better though

Still sounds stressful though - own business, four kids etc. Does your partner help out? How can you change things up a bit?

CatsChin · 28/03/2025 10:22

If it's three years then I wouldn't rule out long covid.

Might sound crazy but I'd actually run this through ChatGPT - if you list all the blood test results in a spreadsheet with dates and talk through your symptoms, it's very useful as a rough diagnostic!

WhereAreWeNow · 28/03/2025 10:22

Did you get tested for anaemia and B12?

MrsSkylerWhite · 28/03/2025 10:23

Some of those symptoms are present when liver function is compromised. Doesn’t always show up in blood tests.

IOSTT · 28/03/2025 10:23

The NHS is usually only looking at the “disease” end of each result - if you have dozens of results that are bottom or top of the NHS range, you will be told there is nothing wrong with you. Realistically, you may have to go for private treatment to get answers - it is likely there are many of your systems not functioning “optimally”. Keep going with the NHS for as long as you can, but there are many many things they do not test for, eg they don’t bother looking at your adrenal glands (unless you have eg signs of addisons - ie disease end of the spectrum). Adrenals are just as important as thyroid. Your thyroid result looks good. You are not crazy, you are ill, probably caused by decades of stress and prioritising everyone else instead of being able to prioritise yourself. You can get well again, but there is no easy fix or magic pill - you’ll have to start with the basics, eg good nights sleep, healthy food, vitamins, gentle exercise or stretching when able. Please try to take care of yourself - see if there’s anyone (family or friends etc) you can start delegating to, eg children, household tasks. Please take this seriously, to avoid further decline. Forget what friends and family say or think, you need to start believing (in) yourself. You will probably need to look for doctors of functional medicine or environmental medicine (the NHS will tell you you don’t need this etc - but the NHS are not helping you to heal). I’ve recently signed up with Optimal Health Clinic in London / online - don’t know yet if they are any good - my private test results so far show hormones all over the place, eg vvvvvvvv low testosterone, adrenals working at minimal level, yeast in gut and so on. Much more to tackle, eg testing for and treating various viruses and bacteria. Best of luck on your healing journey. 💐

Higgeldypiggeldy35 · 28/03/2025 10:25

Look at histamine intolerance. You have all the symptoms.

Kitchensinktoday · 28/03/2025 10:25

Thisissuss · 28/03/2025 09:20

Have you also seen the blood test results? My GP failed to notice low B12, Vit D, Folate and Ferritin because they were all on the line - the boundaries are subjective. I would see what is obviously low and get injections - I had a vit D injection and it made quite a big difference and you can pay for B12 at some pharmacies.

I was going to mention B12. I had dreadful symptoms even though my B12 levels were in the normal range (albeit quite near the bottom).

N3WN8ME · 28/03/2025 10:25

Hi I have no medical knowledge but when I had several symptoms like yours the GP gave me an anti nuclear antibody (ANA) test. I can't see if that is one of the tests that you have had. It might be worth asking if you have had one or trying to see a rheumatologist for a private consultation if possible? My test came back as elevated and I was referred to a rheumatologist and further to that a lupus clinic. On NHS. Conclusions were always inconclusive but the consultant/medical notes said that my symptoms were consistent with a connective tissue disorder. I was given amitrypyline and hydroxchloroquine (plaquenil) and regular blood tests and monitoring. My Ana levels decreased over time but never were recorded at 'normal' levels, always slightly elevated. A doctor said that this might be my normal level. Eventually I got better so I do not have lupus or an autoimmune disorder but for several years was regarded as possibly having an undiagnosed connective tissue disorder. I discharged myself from the lupus clinic eventually (I think I was part of a research project hence the ongoing monitoring.) I recovered over 2-3 years and this was c.15 years ago. I think it was a severe post viral syndrome, perhaps exacerbated by stress and sleep disturbance. The GPs I met were sceptical or not sure what to do as the symptoms are potentially attributable to so many possible causes. It was a family friend hospital consultant who suggested the ANA antibody test, but the rheumatologists were as helpful as they could be.

Katiesaidthat · 28/03/2025 10:26

forcliffssake · 28/03/2025 10:05

I can’t see a result for your TSH - thyroid stimulating hormone. That’s the base thyroid test. Now, in the UK ‘normal’ is a TSH of 0.0 to 4.5. They don’t treat within that range. However if mine is above 3 then I feel like utter crap. I can’t focus, my body aches, hair falls out etc.
my friend had a TSH of 4 and literally begged her GP for a trial of Thyroxine. He did and it changed her life.

0.0 is in no way normal. That is absence of TSH. Mine was 0.0 and I was a raging hyperthyroidism sufferer. My T3 and T4 were off scale, hence TSH 0.0. I was put on a huge dose of carbimazole and betablockers.

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